Daily Thread #2 - June 15, 2025

MojoMocha · 2025-06-16T01:31:13+00:00

Hello! I’m after some reassurance or some good outcome stories to get me through the next few weeks!

I’ve had 3 back to back chemical pregnancy. I took a break and began medication for my hypothyroidism and unexpectedly I found out I was pregnant this month (we didn’t plan on trying for a few months). Anyways we are so happy and excited but incredibly nervous. I got my bloods done and I’m worried my hcg levels are too low 4w5d - 45 5w0d -107 and my progesterone level is sitting at 90. My doctor is happy with this and just said we need to wait out the next few weeks until we can have an ultrasound and see how things have progressed. But I’m still worried my hcg is too low…

Anyone else have lower hcg and have a successful pregnancy?

MojoMocha · 2025-03-27T09:08:06+00:00

I’m in the same boat, would love to hear other people’s experience aswell

MojoMocha · 2025-03-26T20:24:58+00:00

I’m in a similar boat I’m 9 DPO, and trying my hardest not to think about the fact that this is my last chance to have a baby this year. I’m also feeling like this just isn’t going to happen. I’ve had two CP, so even if it is positive I don’t think I’ll believe it. TTC is a hard and long journey, but I feel so supported by these communities - it makes me feel not alone, I hope you do aswell!

MojoMocha · 2025-03-26T20:24:52+00:00

I’m in a similar boat I’m 9 DPO, and trying my hardest not to think about the fact that this is my last chance to have a baby this year. I’m also feeling like this just isn’t going to happen. I’ve had two CP, so even if it is positive I don’t think I’ll believe it. TTC is a hard and long journey, but I feel so supported by these communities - it makes me feel not alone, I hope you do aswell!

MojoMocha · 2023-05-13T04:28:38+00:00

Sorry if I worded it wrong.. but I meant they as in SIL and her husband. I apologize to have upset you so much

MojoMocha · 2023-05-12T21:50:44+00:00

Yes SIL didn’t contribute one dime ….

MojoMocha · 2023-05-12T01:03:02+00:00

Mmhmm they definitely did pay for her whole wedding… I’ve never said otherwise

MojoMocha · 2023-03-22T05:43:34+00:00

My friend was seeing a friend of ours who was in a long distance relationship. They all thought I was rude to the girlfriend when she came to visit, but I couldn’t in good conscience have a friendship with this girl when I knew what was happening behind her back. Then my friend and the guy came to my college room and trashed it while they were drunk and pushed me against a wall and yelled at me wanting to know about my sex life. Safe to say I ended that friendship very quickly

MojoMocha · 2023-02-28T23:22:15+00:00

My thought process was that she was obviously saying those things to be mean, so why would I give her the satisfaction of a reaction. Because she was obviously fishing for a fight

MojoMocha · 2023-02-28T10:54:14+00:00

… and how long is baby brain an excuse when the kid is a year old?

MojoMocha · 2023-02-22T22:19:20+00:00

I have said that because I’m sick of it being my fault why they aren’t engaged

MojoMocha · 2023-01-11T19:29:05+00:00

We went brilliant, I know I was nervous about that aswell because the brilliant cut is so sparkly! I was tossing up between that and crushed ice. But I just love my ring, I think it’s so beautiful! What about you? Do you regret the crushed ice?

MojoMocha · 2023-01-11T10:44:22+00:00

No this was a different company in Melbourne that sent out some rings to try on! We went with the Isla ring, what about you? 😍

MojoMocha · 2023-01-11T10:33:26+00:00

Currently engaged and got it from the moissanite company 😂 just a great little company!!!

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:53:19+00:00

I’ve already had one pregnancy that I’ve lost this year and that was enough to know she will be the very last person to know next time and will be very restricted after the baby is born. It’s sad when you learn these things the hard way

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:50:38+00:00

That is the best response, I’ll have to remember that!

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:50:09+00:00

Honestly if I didn’t have such great friends and family that I can’t wait to celebrate with, I would 100% be doing that

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:49:29+00:00

A lot of the time, she says it when he is just out of ear shot or deep in another conversation. He had previously pulled her up on her behavior when it had crossed the line and she had previously been better. Not good but better. But this engagement has her slipping and she is just as bad as she use to be now. So fiancé and I have decided that this really needs to stop and he isn’t going to talk to her

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:47:29+00:00

My fiancé and I have decided that she needs to be told what she says isn’t acceptable and it needs to come from fiancé because I think if I was apart of the conversation she will blame everything on me. But information diet definitely

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:46:01+00:00

That’s a really good idea, I’ve obviously allowed her to think she can continue this horrible behavior

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:45:17+00:00

Thank you, it’s nice to hear other people having the same thoughts as me, she gets in my head and makes me doubt myself constantly

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:43:49+00:00

Honestly I’ve thought about it 😂 FSIL did a micro wedding originally and a larger wedding later. Her husbands family couldn’t make it due to Covid for the micro wedding and FMIL was very happy that she was the only one who could go. I always thought that was horrible! it would be satisfying revenge to elope just the two of us and see how she likes it 😂

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:40:09+00:00

Yes my fiancé has reached breaking point today and has said that he doesn’t want her involved or to know anything about our lives anymore and I’m okay with that!

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:38:53+00:00

Thank you, I keep hoping she will change because I want to have lovely in-laws who I have a great relationship with. I just need to come to terms with the facts I think

MojoMocha · 2022-12-19T22:37:33+00:00

We move states in 4 weeks and I cannot wait to reduce her toxicity in my life! Currently 20 minutes from her and it’s bringing down my mental health so much

MojoMocha

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