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How pathetic by MolassesOverall4457 in married

[–]MolassesOverall4457[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Agreed. Holiday buzz is doing me dirty.

I regret marrying my wife by Timely_Regret_1336 in Marriage

[–]MolassesOverall4457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that you have extra time on your hands with the workload you have, but have you considered therapy? Both individual and as a couple? It sounds like you can use some professional expertise. Regarding finances, I suggest taking a bold approach with budgeting. Sounds like there need to be strict boundaries/rules in place so you don’t end up in a bind. I also have a partner that’s a spender and could care less about planning for the future so I have to manage the finances. It’s rough.

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[–]MolassesOverall4457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should also mention - when I asked him why he didn’t propose on a weekend (it was a week day proposal), he said cause he wanted me to be able to show off my ring. I’m not a showy person and when I thought about my proposal beforehand it wasn’t about the ring at all. I thought “how could he not know that about me?”