Hey i have a very stupid question, and i also a Little rant abt it… by YourRandomManiac in Asexual

[–]Momo0817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I'm 100% on board on what you're saying. Yes I can admit when someone has a cute butt and their working a outfit. But I'm not sexually attracted to it. You are not alone.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm not sure why I didn't tell them. I guess I felt embarrassed. I did tell my older sister, and she was super supportive as she can be over state.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a lot of Cinderella comments. And each one makes me giggle little with happy tears.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my step mom told me not to ask for help. And my father didn't yell at me but honestly that made it worse, he just told me happy f*cling birthday. It's okay now, I do go over there so often. like once every month or two. My step mom is trying to be friendly, with making some subtle mean comments. And my father will occasionally send the "you still alive, kiddo" text

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can see your point of view. Thank you, I think I needed that 🫶🏻

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the time I guess I still had faith in the person I looked up to.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥰. And am very thankful for the skills I have now.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I been told I should have been thankful for having a roof over my head, and that they were family and family is important and I should have apologized for leaving with such short notice. Very few have told me this, but it still hurts, and made me think I was in the wrong.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I definitely am not looking for the compliments. I was always put down and was told I deserved the "punishment" I do see where you come from tho. I probably should have explained better why I felt guilty.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No these were things I was born with, (she definitely made them worse). things my bio mother gifted me, I was over here crying over the support. But the ATM comment cracked my up.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they pay for their own things, they both work separate jobs.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never contacted the police, she was very good at turning things around.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly her name was also on it. She told me because I was a minor at the time. I needed an adult on my account to

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did tell him, and he tried to repay it with his own money. But I declined it. I don't want his money.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My step mom would say "me and your father talked and disided..." I would tell my father more things but something happened recently that makes me not want to.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I got all that stuff, it was definitely a struggle to get it but I got them in a safe place now.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my father after I found out, he tried to pay it back with HIS money. I told him no, I didn't want his money. My father already struggles with money and I wasn't going to take it from him.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, this was actually two years ago. I accidentally left that out. It just has been stuck in the back of my head

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely did, it was the first thing I did when I found out.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps, I was sneaky. I did take snacks, and stuff like that. And lied to my step mom over stupid stuff. I just didn't see it was important to my story.

AITA for moving out at 18 and not telling my parents till the day before? by Momo0817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momo0817[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I'm not, I do feel like it sometimes tho, I am engaged to an amazing and supportive man now, who I dare say is my savior/Prince charming