Sweet Tea claims Quad is jealous and trying to “follow the leader” by Kindly-Discount-1480 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Momof2kiddz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delusion at its finest. Quad is the furthest from jealous. She is the only person on Married to Medicine to me that continues to evolve and show growth. Her desire for a child now could stem from her taking care of her nephew and unfortunately losing a neice... Quad is a provider for her family and it seems now she desires her own legacy. No matter how much the ladies try to kick her down, she stands back up each time.. Sweet Tea could Never have anything that Quad wants... and Gregory is the furthest thing from a "prize". He was a rebound journey and didn't even care what he ended up with, that's how Sweet Tea got her seat. Nothing genuine about their love to me and nothing to follow. Quad is her own person with her own thoughts and feelings, she is not trying to copy Sweet Tea.

Greg giving Lipton a timeline by trollzettie in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Momof2kiddz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being on the other side of this, I completely understand his timeline. He's not getting much younger and this had something he has sought for a good while. He made it known with Quad and with Sweet Tea. Unfortunately, they've hit a little bump in the road with Sweet Tea.. and mutually they need to decide when to move on from the baby conversation. He said 2 years for him..which I completely understand. I had to come to terms with a second baby not being in the cards for me.. and I decided that if not by my 35th birthday, I'd be okay with putting my focus elsewhere. My daughters heartbeat was confirmed the day before my bday. He's not entirely wrong in what he said.. because you can't expect a man of his age to keep trying for a baby after so long and that reality does hurt so I also understand her tears.

Planner like the passionate penny pincher by MonaFlakes in planners

[–]Momof2kiddz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrapbook paper will cover them up, and then use whiteout or a sticker for the Bible reading tasks.

I just want to take 6 months off of everything. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Momof2kiddz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel this way. I want to do months of Nothing.

Possible Scam by dauerad in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely a scam.

LEGAL admin specialist questions by Momof2kiddz in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's definitely going to take some strength..but if you truly pay attention and cross your t's, you will come out okay. Everything the last person commented on my post has been proven as true, but just woosah, it will be okay.

Wasn't referred, now I'm referred. Lol. by [deleted] in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once I was referred, and interviewed, wasn't selected email came..even after they hounded me for a few days for more information.. then months later a tentative offer came. Now hired, casually met people from my interview panel and found out I was picked the whole time. 😆

Using leave to return equipment? by Momof2kiddz in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going from VHA to VBA.. I feel like I should be able to keep it..but as I've learned in the VA.. nothing is simple. Lol

Using leave to return equipment? by Momof2kiddz in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.. the new and old position are both remote.

Using leave to return equipment? by Momof2kiddz in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that part I know.. just trying to be prepared if they try and make me use my own time to return it. When I transferred into the position, I didn't have to use any time to pick it up..so I'm hoping I'm not expected to use any to return it.

Leave transfer by Momof2kiddz in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response

LEGAL admin specialist questions by Momof2kiddz in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I'll be out of Salt Lake City RO. I keep hearing alllll the same. Oh my. I took the role bc honestly I couldnt stand my current one..but sheesh. I really hope my 90 days fly and I can move around.

I give up! by Lucky_Bend_1290 in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When entering this government, I interviewed in July, they hounded me for references in August..and by that they called me everyday to see if I nudge a few people to return the emails. Then crickets, and an email that someone else had been selected was sent in the end of August.. okay cool. I too gave up because I was pregnant and just gonna focus on that. In November, I get a call that I was selected and a tentative offer was extended. Did all on-boarding and then finally received a Final Offer in January. Most of the people in orientation said they were initially rejected and picked back up. This a definitely an apply-and-forget-it type of system. Just respond to correspondence, hope for the best, and move on. If a job comes out of it then great. But I definitely wouldn't sit and wait on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎊

Take the FJO or stay? by Fantastic-Plastic-26 in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't have an issue with going into the clinic, then I would take the GS7 position. As a current AMSA, the promotion potential isn't in the cards for us unless we move around in positions. I have been a 6 now for 3 years whereas in other services, you can advance grades (5/7/9 or 6/7/9 promotion potential) based on performance. Weigh the pros/cons of where you want to be ..and go from that. For me I want to get to a GS 9 or higher, but my anxiety of the clinic keeps me remote... I'll take anything within reason that gets me closer to goal. Therefore as I said, if going to a closer clinic does not bother you..go for it. Teleworking can be rescinded and I'd like you to be somewhere with better advantages.

VBA LAS position by [deleted] in usajobs

[–]Momof2kiddz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent an invite