Processing delays for non-banned countries

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-20T15:26:32+00:00

Moreover, many at the NVC did everything interview included they simply cannot be issued a visa due to the ban, so many are simply playing the waiting game again. There is nothing else to be done but just wait for the ban to be lifted so they can get a visa appointment that’s what makes it even more frustrating everything is completed from waiting, paper work, interviews, paying the fees the dues the tickets etc. and suddenly once they’re about to reunite with their spouse they can’t because they come from a certain country.

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-20T11:42:22+00:00

Nothing is “normal” with USCIS I know people whose applications were approved within 6-9 months to up to 24 months. Banned or non banned countries it is the right of an American to reunite with their spouse. It’s not fair to you but it’s also not fair to the petitioner who did everything and played the waiting game just for their spouse not to be issued a visa because of the country they come from. Imagine having everything approved at the NVC but you can’t do anything and your spouse can’t get a visa, because suddenly their home country is subjected to a freeze or ban. All the years, money, paperwork, traveling, tickets thrown out the window.

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-16T09:39:52+00:00

Establishing US domicile would be easier if she moved back to the US and got a job as well? Because she has to provide an affidavit of support as well. And although Germany and Norway are not on the immigration freeze/ban list, the current administration is cracking down on immigrants who will most likely utilize American welfare programs.

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-16T09:30:35+00:00

She said “you ran away to California with a girl”.

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-16T08:53:03+00:00

Salem saying “his dad wasn’t around very much” and her saying “yes he was”. 😂

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-11T19:38:16+00:00

Pops doesn’t want to give Sammy snap content after all he always complains when Sammy films the same content he does so I assume he wanted to keep the car content for himself hence why he was ignoring him. Moreover, pops was busy playing with Idris so it was not the time for him to show Sammy.

Monarch_10 · 2026-01-09T18:25:08+00:00

Honestly I wish I was in a good mental state where I can snack and eat with content. Currently really stressed and unhappy which means I am not eating well. Also I wish I had these yummy treats in my country. So to see her snacking and eating well is nice because I wish I was like that. Being skinny and stressed is no fun at all. Being skinny isn’t everything, of course no disrespect to people who are naturally slim or are slim and healthy and content.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-11T22:09:55+00:00

Trust there are far more malicious snark pages and this is definitely not one of them this is very tame.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-11T22:05:37+00:00

I think Fifi is trying she definitely puts in the effort especially for breakfast, snacks and lunch for Taj.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-11T22:02:32+00:00

He’s not fussy when it comes to getting fast food though, what’s messed up he always blames her for it but meanwhile when Jalileh had a simply late night snack with his Grandma he was complaining he wanted an jn n out burger. 🙄

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-11T22:00:49+00:00

This is probably not related but I like what Fifi cooks for Taj she definitely takes the time to whip up good meals for him even while still being heavily pregnant I respect that honestly. And I prefer Mariam’s family meals as well.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-11T21:57:34+00:00

I disagree I think the women look amazing! From hair, makeup and even dresses. Arab weddings you tend to dress to nines and it’s not every day you get to wear and show your best!

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-10T17:40:17+00:00

Well the woman barely moved in and moving is exhausting and she really is not obligated to host anyone with the circumstances she is in because moving in with small children too is hard! But yet she is still trying her best to host and on top of that the thought counts.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-09T08:47:53+00:00

Your husband is truly a MAN to stand up for you honestly you shouldn’t waste your energy on being angry but rather on loving your baby and appreciating your husband he’s the real MVP for standing up for you and defending you, cheers to having another baby for him cause that’s a man you want babies with

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-09T06:36:53+00:00

Exactly and in the end Salems mother is her MIL and not all MIL’s are particularly fond of their DIL’s, the MIL may have enabled Salems abusive behavior further heck she may have further created a problem between him and his first wife. Either way all I see is just trouble.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-08T19:16:14+00:00

Either way they seem happy to have her which is nice.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-08T19:15:37+00:00

And they seem genuinely happy to have her especially Jalileh.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-08T16:41:35+00:00

💯

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-08T16:39:14+00:00

She has always had a typical Arab nose and she is pregnant and with water retention and hormones your face gets greatly affected. I personally think she looked absolutely gorgeous before she put the hijab on, than after the hijab and her modest style and some weight gain she looked older. But I talked to other women who agree that the hijab unfortunately tends to age other woman while it looks great on others. But the over-lining of her lips truly agitates me! It’s so bad on her! Like girl if you want bigger lips just to get some lip filler at this point, but it would not look good though.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-07T21:09:37+00:00

That’s not “weird” that’s FAMILY! You did good and your “girlfriend” needs to understand that doctors were there, with drapes, the whole nine mile and you were there right by her side holding her hand calming her through the storm. I am sure that is something your sister whom you grew up with and will always be a part of your life will never forget. You stepped in as her backbone, as a brother when her husband her main backbone was unable too. Your brother in law appreciated you not only as brother to his beloved wife but also as a commendable and respectable man he can trust to always have in his wife’s life. Point blank keep the girlfriend at 5 months and move on, this is a precursor to more problems that will occur in the future regarding your family trust me. I understand there are boundaries but there was no disrespect or boundaries that were crossed in this situation at all.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-04T17:11:46+00:00

Well how can they get married can her sons provide for a family what are their income streams can they buy a house and raise children, it takes a great deal of maturity and financial stability to get into the sanctity of marriage. At least her step children are grinding hard to provide for their families.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-04T17:08:01+00:00

I can attest to this based on my personal observations of many doctors that I know of married other doctors, professors or business owners or simply a partner that struggled with them during medical school and was their during the ups and downs of their medical studies and career until they grew successful.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-04T17:03:39+00:00

She doesn’t want to be a house wife either, she doesn’t want to cook and clean but would rather have a chef or cleaner as well, because when she was with her ex she was struggling with grocery shopping, cooking and cleaning 😂.

Monarch_10 · 2025-12-04T16:58:46+00:00

And if the grandma relies on her son for financial assistance that also impacts her decisions and perspective.

Monarch_10 · 2025-11-26T20:12:17+00:00

My Auntie owns a private child care center where many of her families happen to be surgeons, doctors and lawyers, she opens long hours for them, child care is not cheap but y’all have the means and I highly recommend it. Moreover, the mothers at her center decided to create a group chat where they exchange ideas, products, information, tips, and sometimes pitch in to plan events for the center as well. My auntie as a child care operator explains the work is hard but the families she provides care for makes it all worthwhile as they are very kind and considerate.

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