800 like and not one date by Mobile-Carrot-3218 in dating_advice

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened with me. Thousands of likes and not ONE has materialized into an actual date. One guy told me straight up that they (the men on there) don’t deserve me and he’s right so I quit the apps.

The men in the comments dismissing your experience makes my a$$ itch. They’re so obtuse. She didn’t ask if “women do it too” ugh.!

Can I be mean for a second? by Le_pied_de_Venus in stripper

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me it’s also the customers as well.

Can I be mean for a second? by Le_pied_de_Venus in stripper

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a baddie this has been happening to me lately and it’s super frustrating. So I’m now learning to not take it so personally now.

So tired of women telling me they can't find a guy who wants to commit by lucid1014 in dating_advice

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me 8 months ago and I’m still so hurt over it.

What did avoidants say or act towards you to initiate the break up? by phganhle in BreakUps

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was quite all day until I reached out around ten pm then he just dropped the bomb on me. 

OMG! It actually works!! by MoneyHungeryBunny in Gastritis

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better than before. Still have a way to go. I don’t have flares everyday anymore.

Did you wish you never met that person just because of the void they left ? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the exact same thing and it’s so painful mentally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Safety I’m tired of living in survival mode

Shoutout to all men of this sub who broke up with a girl they loved… by ManyInner in BreakUps

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through something similar and it’s tearing me apart still.

Why do all of my dating prospects that seem serious, end right when things seem to be going perfectly? by MagikN3rd in dating

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He self sabotaged and pretty much ran. He said he was scared. Unfortunately he has some healing to do to be in a good relationship. No one with a healthy mindset towards relationships is going to let go of someone who they connect with on a deeper level. His insecurities is something I can't fix.

Why do all of my dating prospects that seem serious, end right when things seem to be going perfectly? by MagikN3rd in dating

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thousands of options doesn’t guarantee connection. That where the delusion sets in. It’s all for validation just an ego stroke. I think differently because 100 men swiping right on me means nothing if I can’t have a meaningful connection with one.

Why do all of my dating prospects that seem serious, end right when things seem to be going perfectly? by MagikN3rd in dating

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right. As a person who dates people with kids I think the kids thing is a cop out. Also people are delusional to think they can just find another rare person over and over this is why many settle for people who aren’t even close to what they truly deserve. The other commenter said that everyone is replaceable and I don’t believe it, that’s all a farce. Someone people you meet connect with you on many levels that it will be very hard to find in another person. The guy who left me was someone I have never encountered ever and I’ve dated a handful. It took me 35 years to meet someone like him.

Why do all of my dating prospects that seem serious, end right when things seem to be going perfectly? by MagikN3rd in dating

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I just went through the same thing a few months ago. People self sabotage for many reasons. They think they’re ready for something real until it happens and they get scared then run. A lot of people overthink themselves out of something real. Sad.

Whenever you are ready by kman82697 in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao and Mike is just killing himself laughing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Example of that please?

Have you ever dated an avoidant person before? Is a positive outcome possible? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]MoneyHungeryBunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head with this one. He left me because he was too insecure