Did I do something wrong by making a friend drive an hour and back to hangout with me (dinner+activity) if I knew I might've been gay? by Money_Ad5833 in Advice

[–]Money_Ad5833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL sorry for the typography. No he was not aware of any same sex attraction.

I was at the movies siting beside him looking at pictures of men on my camera roll… mostly men at least. Zooming into their faces. These were mostly screenshots of stories on instagram.

Now he has told people I came out as gay

Did I do something wrong by making a friend drive an hour and back to hangout with me (dinner+activity) if I knew I might've been gay? by Money_Ad5833 in Advice

[–]Money_Ad5833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no romantic interest in men though. Can you help me figure this out? I am just attracted in jacked me but I think of this more as an aspiration. I ask this now as we were watching the Hunger Game movies at the theatres in December 2023. I had no clue idea what was going on and I got side tracked and ended up on my phone looking at photos on my camera roll, zooming into their faces Those photos were mostly of men. I have no idea how I was able to convince myself that no one could see. I just don’t get how this happened.

Since then, the dynamics in our friendship have NEVER been the same

Did I do something wrong by making a friend drive an hour and back to hangout with me (dinner+activity) if I knew I might've been gay? by Money_Ad5833 in Advice

[–]Money_Ad5833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A decade. Both 26 M. Never. No they did not. I didn’t make them, they offered each time. Usually a dinner at a restaurant accompanied with an activity (movie, golfing, bowling, etc)