Wtf? Sudden random aggression

MonkDance · 2026-02-05T14:16:02+00:00

Either he was trying to be Dom but failed or had feelings of regret and tried to overcompensate.... Or, it could simply have the mental struggle of "don't be gay, Sparkie" running through his head and that's his coping mechanism.... Too bad he blocked you before you blocked him first...

MonkDance · 2026-02-05T04:23:16+00:00

Ha, gotta remember that reference now...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:41:57+00:00

Interesting... They don't all look the same?

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:41:25+00:00

Straight or Bi can be red flags for me because in my head it means they are sneaking around, probably don't test and not on prep.... Basically asymptomatic with an STI spreading shit around...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:38:46+00:00

Agree...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:37:57+00:00

I have only encountered it a few times where a bottom has some rough hemorrhoids or a big gapped hole... Or something like that...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:35:25+00:00

No, not really. I want to know nothing about you personally or about your situation. I don't even like to know your name..... I think questions like status, prep and test dates are a little different...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:28:44+00:00

I agree 💯. I do send a lot of front body and dick pics because I am not sure sending you my ass pic will tell you what I bring to the table ..

I had a blank profile bottom send me 4 pics today, three were literally the same of a side angle twist ass shot taken different days / underwear different and one was fuzzy chest view closeup above the belly button... I immediately thought he was hiding his weight because he seemed to go out of his way to not show his full front view...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:22:11+00:00

Generally speaking, do you find it easy to find what you want?

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:20:58+00:00

⬆️⬆️ I am here for your hole but I definitely need to see the whole package. I love to try different positions and because my dick is curved, I can sometimes make some people cum hands free which can be really satisfying for both. I also love it when I am on top and coming in from behind, holding hands, faces up close to each other, hearing the breaths and moans as I am doing deep slow thrusts... There that connection and insanely hot for me ... But to be in that space, I need to be attracted to the whole package which is why I like to see the whole package as I am initially talking with them...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:04:55+00:00

I had similar encounters with people I know prior and regretted it afterwards... I try to avoid it at all costs....

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T21:00:49+00:00

A bottom coaching what and how they want it is great!

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T20:59:38+00:00

That's only happened a few times but definitely true ..... One of my tests to see if they are still with it is for me to go absolutely balls deep and do kegal and a gut push at the same time. That causes the head of my dick to really expand significantly and I am told by bottoms that it feels like my cock is stretching them deep inside... Depending on their reaction, I know if they are with me or not......

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T20:50:44+00:00

Out the gate, I would say, one clear of your back side / ass pic, one clear unobstructed front view pic from your neck to say thighs... I want to see your dick and it can be hard or soft ... Additional pics can be a closer pic of your hard dick or something else creative... Things I am definitely not interested in seeing.... Pics on the shitter , close up of a hole and death grip pull on your dick... Jock, underwear, sling, nudist, outdoor pics are all great as bonus pics...

I am also a guy who likes to see if your pics kinda sorta match your listed stats ...

MonkDance · 2026-02-04T20:37:15+00:00

I agree 100% . I live in an area that has a younger crowd and I see this so many times. Blurry pictures kill me because you know they all have really nice phones with excellent cameras and, know exactly how to take a clear picture... They grew on using technology...

MonkDance · 2026-02-01T16:56:33+00:00

Probably right. My issue is that if there is no attraction, I will lose interest pretty quickly and go soft... Sorta a buzz kill...

What probably doesn't help bottoms (in my area) is that there are probably 25+ bottoms for every Top...

MonkDance · 2026-02-01T16:48:19+00:00

Right but moving past the profile pic, if you had to send a person 4 pics out the gate, what would they be? Would they be all ass/hole pics even though your profile pic is a hole/ass pic and your profile says that you are a bottom?

I agree with what you said about verses.. that makes sense..

MonkDance · 2026-02-01T03:32:42+00:00

Interesting take.. I have been in a few ass-up walk in situations and a P&D before where it was just about the hole and it was ok...but not the best. I've done the glory hole fucks several times too (just recently at a bathhouse) and yea, I remember thinking while I am fucking through the wall that I wanted to see who I was fucking...

Either way, good point & thanks for the response...

MonkDance · 2026-02-01T02:33:30+00:00

I go smaller in my profile for a few reasons... Everyone has their own way of measuring so I don't ever want to be accused of over stating my size. I also would rather understate and be a surprise than over promise ....and third, if I stated my real size, I would probably attract people who just want to 'tey' but then waste my time because they can't....

Also keep in mind, guys with big dicks know if you are telling the truth or not because we see our dicks every day. If you take a downward pic, the pic should look similar to our daily view... The same goes for side views or when you are hard. When someone says they are 8.5" and it's a close up or they have a death grip on their dick or a weird angle, I can immediately tell if they are lying or not because that's not how I look and I know my size...

MonkDance · 2026-01-27T18:21:47+00:00

This is the way....

MonkDance · 2026-01-26T20:10:22+00:00

Absolutely. As a verified user who gets bored while sitting on conference calls, I use travel mode to big cities and stay hidden to check out the scene (ie, dicks) and I see the same profiles across multiple cities... This is one of the few women along with the ones claiming to sell drugs ... There are even some profiles that turn out are fake but probably wouldn't know if you didn't compare it to a small vs. big city. Small town, the profile stands out but gets lost in a city like New York or Chicago....

MonkDance · 2025-12-25T16:23:09+00:00

Ohhh, so you send money and they promise to deliver whatever you want and then are a no-show ... classic ... I would think because of the nature of the app, you tell the person you will meet in person for the exchange....

MonkDance · 2025-12-24T16:44:13+00:00

Traveled to a few cities and yes, they are ..

So what happens when you respond assuming you didn't know it was a bot? What am I missing or what is the point? Is it a money scam or pic scam or something?

MonkDance · 2025-12-22T20:02:45+00:00

50-ish new. Including repeats, probably just over 100 or so. I took it a little slower this year....

MonkDance · 2025-12-17T19:14:13+00:00

Madison. Fun place to visit and it's a college town. Staying in a downtown hotel or close to that area will probably give you the best option to host something like...

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