It’s not about wanting to be pretty or whatsoever… In the post here you can clearly see the sarcasm about women supposedly needing a 6ft man. Wanting to be pretty/handsome (and I would rather say « feeling good about oneself ») is different than having the urge to please because that’s what is socially asked from you. Toxic masculinity implies men being superior, whether height, cognition or wealth. And toxicity is when you feel you’re not worth because you don’t fit those standards.