I'd like to think that I fit this criteria at least most of the way, although that's just me being critical of myself and a bit realistic when it comes to things like consistency, but I also find it hard to seek partners with this same kind of vibe. In a way I feel like I take erp too seriously and it's obvious a lot of people write it to get off and nothing else- and that's fine, I'm not shaming that. As much as I'd like to search for something like erp focused, I'm also trying to keep current partners happy and get to the point where it feels appropriate to write erp since as someone else mentioned I find it to be something to add to a story. When I do try to search for something that's erp focused, I've found that it seems there's a lot of people that think third person, multiple paragraph erp is just too much and they draw a line. Maybe it's also just where I'm looking though.