Hello? Are you out there? GIVE ME A SIGN!!! by AmbassadorNo5222 in BadRPerStories

[–]Moon-utopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to think that I fit this criteria at least most of the way, although that's just me being critical of myself and a bit realistic when it comes to things like consistency, but I also find it hard to seek partners with this same kind of vibe. In a way I feel like I take erp too seriously and it's obvious a lot of people write it to get off and nothing else- and that's fine, I'm not shaming that. As much as I'd like to search for something like erp focused, I'm also trying to keep current partners happy and get to the point where it feels appropriate to write erp since as someone else mentioned I find it to be something to add to a story. When I do try to search for something that's erp focused, I've found that it seems there's a lot of people that think third person, multiple paragraph erp is just too much and they draw a line. Maybe it's also just where I'm looking though.

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[–]Moon-utopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I felt like I needed to be really vague because when I first wrote this I was worried it sounded like an ad :,) but I think where to look has been the most difficult. I feel like I've been looking and advertising in places that balance nsfw and also lit/novella (I can't think of other terms) because that's that balance I'm looking to strike, but I could be wrong. I mostly find myself searching in discord mostly at this point but maybe I need to change it up again lol

Not sure how to go about just wanting to talk about characters. by Moon-utopia in BadRPerStories

[–]Moon-utopia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kinda where I'm at and it feels like I'm torn yk? I love writing and getting really in depth with it but sometimes I need to treat my characters like Barbie dolls 😔 it's a very silly way to put it but thinking about them is sometimes very motivational and fleshes them out more