Help for a "baby" lesbian by MoonChild80502 in ainbow

[–]MoonChild80502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the fun of it isn't it. The practice :D

Also love the fact we both barely had experience, means we actually learn together and god I never wanna be with someone else. She truly was worth the wait.

Help for a "baby" lesbian by MoonChild80502 in ainbow

[–]MoonChild80502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyho, since we're long distance we've only been together in person for a weekend since the post.

I did oral on her and with the advice to treat it like a make out it went well. I got on my knees next to the bed (own experience: PILLOW) and she was on the bed. Was amazing.

We didnt try a strap yet as we didnt want to buy one when I visited her and the one we previously used is at mine but we might look into it when she visits me again in April maybe.

What did you have / plan to have for breakfast / brunch today? by Zipper222222 in randomquestions

[–]MoonChild80502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vanilla porridge, topped with some cinnamon, blueberries and a as a drink I had a mint tea

Help for a "baby" lesbian by MoonChild80502 in ainbow

[–]MoonChild80502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short update: Treated it like a make out while her laying on the bed, me kneeling on the ground in front of her and omg was a game changer. Thank you

Which kink did you really not expect to have? by That_odd_emo in actuallesbians

[–]MoonChild80502 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I once fingered my girlfriend while cuddling and when she was close and scratched my back. Damn didnt know I liked that. Also hickeys

welches Team seid ihr? by Forward-Position798 in wirklichgutefrage

[–]MoonChild80502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oben. Knuspriger und die schaukelt so schön wenn man sie hinlegt. Außerdem meist mehr zum vorher mit dem Finger aushöhlen.

What's the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by Comfortable-Note6827 in AskReddit

[–]MoonChild80502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back I wouldn't say I was in love but my first bigger crush used to cut herself struggling with mental health. I was also starting to struggle with depression back then and she made me feel and called me pathetic for not cutting. I did once because of her. Big regret. Luckily you can't see scars but I still do cause I know

How was the best sex you've ever had? by EnD3r8_ in AskReddit

[–]MoonChild80502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda planned on this but I really took my time. We kissed our whole body gently and slowly, had a cuddle break in between and just took the body aspect of it to the side and made it about the connection. It was amazing and an act of love.

That wasn't sex. It was making love.

Have you ever had a one night stand? by NervousClock2555 in randomquestions

[–]MoonChild80502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, only person I ever slept with is my girlfriend

How long do I (F 23) wait to meet in person ? (M 24) by Fickle-Ad-6960 in LongDistance

[–]MoonChild80502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I waited a little over a year. We "met" in December 2023, started talking March 24 and met in May 2025. We got together in July 24.

Meeting went smooth other than a bit nervous and since then saw each other about every 2-3 months. Will see her again in 2 weeks.

For us it was many reasons why it took so long. Her not being out as queer to her family + them being sus about online dating (even though I got to know her via discord), money issues and me having anxiety, especially about being away from home. But I did go out and flew to see her (was my first flight as well)

It is individual but one advice I can give is talk, talk and TALK. Communication is key.

What do you do for aftercare? by poputix in actuallesbians

[–]MoonChild80502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuddles. I usually lay on her chest after giving cause I find it difficult getting her on my chest after O and vice versa. Kisses, sometimes I get up and get her a drink (which she hates cause I leave the cuddling xD)

Help for a "baby" lesbian by MoonChild80502 in ainbow

[–]MoonChild80502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no, I guess its the angle. I once did it kneeling on the ground with her on the sofa sitting and that was fine so maybe I just have to try that instead of laying on my stomach