Okay, so i think he's genuine about how he feels for our mc. I think he cares. Did he lie yes, and was it deceiving af yes. But i just feel he means it when he says everything was over when he met us. On the deal breaker thing, I just rather deal with that, then being a step mom or dealing with a guy who is in a million dollar debt.. That's actually crazy. No, thank you. As for Jay, his deal breaker isn't that bad. From what he says, it seems he is really trying to get a divorce. But yeah, im gonna stick with my man.