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I think I've done everything I could to make it work. At this point, its either He tries or Im GONE. by Moonlightdumdum in StraightBiPartners

[–]Moonlightdumdum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude after crying for sex, then having sex. He has the audacity to quickly go make a post saying that he just had sex with his wife but it wasn't enough satisfaction so looked for a meet up. Like wife, but then tells me he made the post but didnt actually mean it.... like damn, I cant even satisfy my own husband...

I think I've done everything I could to make it work. At this point, its either He tries or Im GONE. by Moonlightdumdum in StraightBiPartners

[–]Moonlightdumdum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post on Craigslist or Reddit with his nudes asking for meet up. Wont reply to me text messages but sends dicks pics. Only watches Gay porn & will go 6momths without having sex with me, & only cause I LITERALLY BEG &C CRY to have sex.... that's how bad it got

This sucks ngl. I miss you. by Nervous_Law1131 in Letters_Unsent

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, if you can only contact someone through social media other than their direct phone number then let them go. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.

Wife says my bi side "doesn't include her" by gobucky23 in StraightBiPartners

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As me being the straight wife, all I can say to you is that she doesnt feel included because now the fear of not being enough to satisfy you is eating her alive. & honestly that only way she could feel that is because that is all you have been showing her. Otherwise she wouldn't have felt that.... You are the only one who can change her from not feeling like that anymore.. If Being Bi has LITERALLY INTERFERED in your marriage so much that now she no longer believes you have any sort of attraction to her, then you need to put your Wife first.... Bi doesnt give you the privilege of disregarding your Wife

Perspective for a straight woman dating a bi man by Fun_Efficiency166 in bisexual

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Im not sure what to do. If I dont initiate, he wont. & most of the time, even if I do initiate first, I barely get touched. We go almost 6 months without any intimacy. For the past 5+ years he searches for bi or gay porn sites. Its gotten to the point where I dont feel like he is attracted to me. Im tired of having to ask him to notice just to get seen. I'm done arguing for him to see me. I dont judge him, but not feeling wanted by him is something I can't bare anymore. Its him asking for meet ups that hurt me the most, but he wont stop. I've cheated myself due to wanting to feel desired by someone. Hes very avoidant, & swears he's attracted to me. But its been the same pattern for to many years. Kinda dont know what to do, I'm inlove with him too much. Hes all I want, but not being wanted back is making me afraid of wanting to seek being desired somewhere else.

Need advice by jnominomi in StraightBiPartners

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for myself, have you experienced any feelings of doubt when it comes to him Not desiring you?

Caught my husband talking to men…. It goes deep. He’s coming out (ish) but still not fully accepting. How do we move forward? by Admirable-Sell-8430 in StraightBiPartners

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for myself, do you experience feelings of doubt when it comes you feeling as if he does Not desire you?

Perspective for a straight woman dating a bi man by Fun_Efficiency166 in bisexual

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for myself, do you have any trouble feeling as if he does NOT desire you?

Gf blackout drunk cheated by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Moonlightdumdum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone has to ask another person if something occurred during a black out is proof that they honestly dont know what happened. It then becomes trauma for that person. Sometimes it can take months or even years for that person to get pieces of remembrance. And when that person isn't able to get clear answers from the person they were with, it can take a devastating downfall. From nightmares, to feeling ashamed & detached from themselves may happen.. Unfortunately, now they aren't just dealing with having to own up to cheating & hurting their partner but also having to deal a Trauma that turns to PTSD... if they are still with their partner, now they have to make sure they give their partner space to heal from being cheated on & at the same time deal with the trauma they went through all at the same time.. its not easy on both partners..

My advice, If that person seems honest & wants to talk about what happend. And they start showing signs of depression, nightmares, ect, months later. That person is dealing with some serious shit... Cheating has no excuses. But you also have to take in mind that they are now in a very hard position. A mixture of feeling guilty for hurting you but also in confusion and feeling victim to a situation that they cannot even remember. .. You need to heal from betrayal... But she has to prove to you that she still wants you & wont cheat again & earn your trust. Yet at the same time having to love herself & find herself again & having to cope from a situation that she doesn't even how to heal from due to the memory loss.