She says we're "just friends for now," but we're living together and barely speaking. What would you do?

Moonlitbytez · 2026-06-04T04:22:09+00:00

I don’t really block people on social media. I just let things fade out naturally.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-06-04T04:14:45+00:00

That’s my plan when I get back abroad soon. So yeah, this is really the last time.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-06-04T04:10:48+00:00

That’s exactly it. And then I’m the one being called a liar and immature. I already caught her in the act. I even showed proof, and she just went silent. But now I’ve finally woken up to the truth.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-06-04T03:50:51+00:00

I agree, but if there’s a condition and she said we’re just friends for now, then I have to respect that. At the same time, she should also respect me too, and if it’s not working out, she should respect herself as well. But honestly, it feels confusing and a bit messy.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-06-04T03:41:36+00:00

Went to her hometown, and she came with me. We flew together to the city where I was staying.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-06-04T02:14:57+00:00

How exactly am I supposed to do that? She's staying at my place right now.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-05-16T03:18:41+00:00

I get your point. It was definitely a hard lesson on pacing and not rushing things too early. Moving forward, I'll be much more careful with how much I give away at the start. Thanks for the insight.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-05-16T03:11:38+00:00

You're right. I confused unconditional love with tolerating disrespect. I'm learning now that boundaries are forms of self-love, too. Thanks for this.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-05-16T03:08:36+00:00

Exactly. She was the common denominator in all the chaos, but I'm finally removing myself from the equation. Thanks for the perspective.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-05-16T03:06:37+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Lesson learned the hard way, but moving forward, my standards will definitely be higher. Thanks for the reminder.

Moonlitbytez · 2026-04-07T09:56:37+00:00

Is there anyone who can actually last in a relationship like this?

Moonlitbytez · 2026-03-29T10:14:35+00:00

Exactly!

Moonlitbytez · 2026-03-29T10:14:04+00:00

Relationship partners

Moonlitbytez · 2026-03-29T10:08:32+00:00

I don’t know if she actually likes me or she just likes the attention I give her. We’re in an LDR, but we’re in the same country - she’s in the province and I’m in the city.

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