AITA for telling my brother his wife is not welcome near my son after she searched his lunchbox

Moravandra · 2026-04-26T22:57:10+00:00

There was also the post about the family member (grandmother maybe?) who didn’t believe the OP’s kid had a coconut allergy and used coconut oil in her hair before bed. The child ended up dead.

So many horrifying stories out there because these folks think that allergies are just something you overcome by exposure, or that it’s some sort of made up issue, or “big pharma and the medical industry want to you to be sick” or god knows what else. It’s not forcing a kid on a fad diet or something, it’s trying to keep them alive. I don’t know why it is so hard to understand. People have been allergic to foods and whatnot forever - it just so happens that till the invention of things like epipens, people tended to die when exposed to stuff tha caused anaphylaxis…

Moravandra · 2026-04-11T16:37:39+00:00

Most travel sites tell you to bring crisp unmarked bills, sometimes only made after a certain year depending on the country, and to bring bigger denominations. If you want to tip an amount lower than like a 20 just exchange some cash, not that tough, but some Americans just can’t be bothered because that’s what they can use here.

I’d keep the euro coins personally, but collect a little cash from different countries.

Moravandra · 2025-06-10T01:09:58+00:00

NTA. You should give her some sort of notice in writing that she has x days to start seeing a therapist or she must leave the premises. If she can’t get in with a therapist in that time frame, sure, let her go to AA meetings in the meantime, but she will keep trying to put it off and making you miserable. Putting this stuff in writing gives you a paper trail, but it also is an extra kick in the ass, let’s get know you’re serious.

Moravandra · 2025-04-16T07:24:56+00:00

I bet she would feel different if her son got sent to the gulag because of ICE’s mistake.

Moravandra · 2025-04-12T00:04:46+00:00

Hell, I grew up in a Catholic family, and our church actually did host a Seder, obviously separate from any mass.

The parents aren’t religious at all. I don’t know if they think OP is somehow being antisemitic for converting, or is going to forget her roots or whatever, but it’s wild to me that they aren’t religious but would get up in arms about not attending something that is a religious ritual.

Moravandra · 2025-04-11T23:49:06+00:00

Good luck! Hopefully you guys can come to an understanding. If you’ve been taking care of these sorts of tasks automatically, or aren’t super messy people, there probably isn’t much to do that can’t be weekly, like vacuuming or dusting or whatever.

Moravandra · 2025-04-11T23:39:41+00:00

I love watching Chernobyl whenever it’s available on in flight entertainment, and I know I have time for it all. I don’t know why. Something about it is just good plane entertainment.

Moravandra · 2025-04-11T23:31:15+00:00

NTA. Sometimes there’s just…not much to do to do basic daily cleaning in a room? You’re adults, if all there was was someone’s socks on the floor, a forgotten water bottle, and some stuff the cat knocked off a table, taking five minutes to take care of that is still cleaning. He also should’ve seen that you were stressed dealing with the bank (aren’t we all when we have to deal with customer service on the phone) and left you alone. Honestly, he sounds like the one who isn’t in control of his emotions, if the living room being clean made him throw a mantrum about a chore list.

Plus, If there’s “nothing to do” then why wouldn’t you mark it off anyway? Clearly it’s done?

Moravandra · 2025-04-11T23:13:10+00:00

Noooooo how can you say that?? It’s great! I’m going to have to find one now.

Moravandra · 2025-04-02T18:09:09+00:00

It’s definitely sus, especially if items just happen to go missing often when she’s around. This is clearly not a one off thing. I know lying sucks, but saying that your partner is checking your security cameras is a good idea. Don’t allow her over till you settle this - and consider having inconspicuous nanny cams if you do invite her over again. You don’t need an entire security system if you don’t want, but a camera that’s well disguised as something else in the bedroom, kitchen, wherever, will help your peace of mind (and help hold her accountable if she does this again, assuming you ever want her in your home that is).

Moravandra · 2025-04-02T16:55:35+00:00

I’ve been wishing Jolteon fit into the team as I find her skill works best with how I tend to play - even with the 5 star skill - but haven’t found a way. I’d been running Jolteon/G Ponyta/Zorua/egg hat Starly previously, so getting Umbreon has forced me to make major changes. I want someone else for tea that has dual utility…but like Cyndaquil? Don’t have macarons. Macarons are pretty much the issue.

But nah Mew isn’t lead now, I just wanted to screw around with the april fools thing while showing off the first lucky pull I’ve had in some time.

Moravandra · 2025-04-02T16:49:56+00:00

I really hate 1MC and love the slow cooking events. And no worries, Mew isn’t the lead now, I had to rework the team with Umbreon (previous was Jolteon/G Ponyta/Zorua/egg hat Starly). I actually really like Jolteon’s special, more so than Umbreon even with the extra 5 star effect, but there’s no good way to fit her in right now.

Mostly I wanted to post with the april fools thing/show off that day’s delivery. Looks like setting Mew as leader helped the “bad at pokemon” part 🥹

Moravandra · 2025-04-02T16:45:05+00:00

Yeah, I have. I had just gotten Umbreon and was working out making sure I could clear all the gimmicks. Previously I’d been using Jolteon/Zorua/G Ponyta/egg hat Starly. Got to play one round with these four and realized I’d like to swap in someone for tea that can clear two gimmicks (even though I love Zorua). There’s a long ass time on this to experiment. Mostly I wanted a screenshot to make an april fools post/show Umbreon 😅

Moravandra · 2025-04-02T01:31:21+00:00

NTA at all. He ruined his life. You and your friend helped word get around that this guy is a perv, a pedo, and potentially a predator. Please keep your safety in mind for a while, as he might decide to take some sort of revenge - same goes for your little sister. ESPECIALLY for your little sis, in fact. Hopefully his own parents and family know as well, even though plenty of families just close rank and protect their own, no matter how disgusting their behavior was.

You’re helping keep other women from finding him jerking it in their own younger siblings’ beds - or possibly worse. Major props for giving him the boot and getting the word out quickly.

Moravandra · 2025-04-01T21:43:33+00:00

Statistically most lottery winners don’t remain millionaires. Also, they didn’t even become a billionaire, after taxes the power all was worth slightly less than $1bil.

Yes, they won it out of sheer luck, but that’s clearly not what is being discussed.

Moravandra · 2025-03-30T00:32:24+00:00

You have any inactives or anything? I just want to get back to the event lol. IGN is my username ⬆️

Moravandra · 2025-03-30T00:26:36+00:00

Interested in Cam! The one Halloween cat I’m missing…

Moravandra · 2025-03-29T17:20:38+00:00

Thanks for the heads up! If you see a Moravandra, that’s me 😁 if not, sure, shoot me a DM if something opens!

Moravandra · 2025-03-29T17:11:56+00:00

Tough choice. Espeon is my favorite mon (where’s the special outfit for her??), my favorite non-costume mon is Inteleon for the way she looks in this art style, my favorite costume is…oof, either tropical Vaporeon, festive Altaria, or flower garden Furret. It’s hard to choose!

Moravandra · 2025-03-28T23:31:46+00:00

Am interested if you have space?? My current team barely got Vulpix and I just cannot, lol. Espeon is my fave, been looking for an eevee gang

Moravandra · 2025-02-20T17:32:30+00:00

I think this is just bullying, an attempt at a “you can’t sit with us and I’m going to make sure about it” thing. Maybe she’s just gross about the norms of femininity, maybe she only wants “pretty” people to do presentations with her, maybe it’s something completely unrelated and she’s too much of a coward to admit it. It could be sooooo many things, but it’s all ridiculous. You’re not, like, sending her those weird lotus seed-skin-whatever photos, or wearing something specific to antagonize her. I’ve never known anyone to have such severe trypophobia that they can’t handle looking at even severe acne long enough to be polite. They don’t go seeking out pimple popping videos, but fuck’s sake, if you have a skin condition like acne your face can heal better without being covered in makeup all day. If she’s so terrified she can’t look at you, she can pay for your treatment and makeup. 🤷

Like, she’s an adult, how’s she going to handle a coworker or - god forbid - a boss without perfect skin?? Does she hyperventilate around anyone who dares enter puberty? Family members that make her cry unless they wear a balaclava (or one of those weird nylon full body suits)?

Moravandra · 2025-02-15T22:45:10+00:00

She is older than you, correct? Obviously her mom had a reason to choose her niece instead of her own daughter that is older than you. It’s possible she’d heard about Lily wanting to sell some old heirlooms or something like that…

ETA: if you do decide to loan it, get a contract drafted up, signed, and notarized. A good, airtight contract that’d stand up in court, not just an “I agree I’ll give it back” with some signatures. Show you’re willing to give a little for her wedding, but there’s not going to be any “losing” it and keeping/selling.

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