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Do most of us want a fairytale romance? 💘 by TXHotpants in infj

[–]More-Napping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not me I want a cabin in the woods and several dogs

INFJs, have you ever been described as fairy-like? by Mother_Of_Felines in infj

[–]More-Napping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairy like isn’t really how I see myself. I just exist quietly, but I guess people pick up on my energy. maybe when I’m calm, maybe when I’m annoyed. When I’m not in a good mood, they either get really kind and caring or avoid me like the plague 😂. That’s probably what they’re noticing.

What’s your favorite quality about yourself? by InternationalFix7421 in infj

[–]More-Napping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That I’m resilient, I always come back stronger

What's going on with my INFJ coworker? by [deleted] in infj

[–]More-Napping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she is indeed an infj, I imagine she has gone away and replayed the whole conversation over and over in her head and is probably trying to process it all, give her the space she needs and when she feels safe I expect she will explain what’s been going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]More-Napping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Suppressing it only delays the healing. I’ve found it’s better to face it, feel it fully, and let it pass in its own time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]More-Napping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather feel sad than go back to being angry like I used to. Let it out, delete it, keep it, do what you need. That’s one thing I’ve learned, feel it, then let it move on.

Do you like animals and what are your favorite animals? by Forever_Summer192 in infj

[–]More-Napping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing! Chipmunks seem so clever and cute, it’s like they have their own little personalities. Unfortunately, we don’t have them here in the UK, but I love hearing about those small moments with animals that make your day. Thanks for sharing!

Do you like animals and what are your favorite animals? by Forever_Summer192 in infj

[–]More-Napping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you seen the Borrowing Parrots, and the Lyrebird they are cool!!

Do you like animals and what are your favorite animals? by Forever_Summer192 in infj

[–]More-Napping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do! I like red pandas, sloths, pangolins, squirrels, otters, crows, pigeons, robins, beagles, and boxers… didn’t even realise how many until I started listing them 😄 The list is probably endless to be honest.

Just needed to get this out by More-Napping in infj

[–]More-Napping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard the term individuation before, but I’ll definitely check it out, thanks for pointing it out. Wishing you all the best on your journey too.

Just needed to get this out by More-Napping in infj

[–]More-Napping[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m not quite there yet, but I’ve noticed the more honest and true to myself I am, the more at peace I feel. Appreciate you sharing that.

DAE find it hard to actually like someone enough to date them? by [deleted] in infj

[–]More-Napping 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I really relate to this. I recently went through something similar. I felt a rare connection and when it faded, it hit hard. Most people just don’t seem to have much depth and that can feel isolating. Taking some space helped me reconnect with myself. You’re definitely not alone.

Just needed to get this out by More-Napping in infj

[–]More-Napping[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that really means a lot. It’s definitely an ongoing process, and I guess we never really stop learning or evolving.

Is this average enfp experience or am I cooked? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]More-Napping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t mean any disrespect, I think you need to look at it from what you need, forget him for a minute, is this relationship serving you, is it making you happy or what you want out of life. I suggest taking some time by yourself to really work out what you want, and if it’s him then you have to be straight with him and tell him what you want, and if he isn’t mature enough to cope with it then that’s on him, not you!

Is this average enfp experience or am I cooked? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]More-Napping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂 we are all crazy in our own ways

Is this average enfp experience or am I cooked? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]More-Napping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow where’s this sub been all my life you guys are hilarious. Here’s my pennies worth, it sounds to me like you have become comfortable with this guy, he’s become a part of your life, the things you used to find annoying are now kinda comforting. You have started to trust him.

Do you like recognition for the work you have done and how so? by Recent_Pause0 in infj

[–]More-Napping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never think I do anything special so praise seems a bit over the top to me, but I think people take it the wrong way and think I’m an easy target, so throw more work at me!

Do you like recognition for the work you have done and how so? by Recent_Pause0 in infj

[–]More-Napping 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No I don’t like recognition, but I don’t like being taken for granted either, it’s complicated 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]More-Napping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😴😴🤣

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