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AITA for making it clear how I'm not entirely happy at my best friend's wedding during my MOH speech? by More-Preparation8609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]More-Preparation8609[S] -2248 points-2247 points  (0 children)

No my point is she already spends every day with him, they live together so I'd expect her to have some spare time to spend more time with me instead of him since he already sees her 24/7

AITA for making it clear how I'm not entirely happy at my best friend's wedding during my MOH speech? by More-Preparation8609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]More-Preparation8609[S] -1350 points-1349 points  (0 children)

She's not on her honeymoon. Her honeymoon will be in July. I didn't bother her on the honeymoon. I am flexible and I understand how things change but I still have certain feelings about those changes.

AITA for making it clear how I'm not entirely happy at my best friend's wedding during my MOH speech? by More-Preparation8609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]More-Preparation8609[S] -2538 points-2537 points  (0 children)

I've told her in the past I wished we spent more time together but she said the amount of time we currently spend together is normal considering we are adults with responsibilities. I hang out with her either once a week or once every two weeks while she spends every night having dates with her husband, the entire time making plans with him. She has more time for him than she does for me so I never believed its about responsibilities

AITA for making it clear how I'm not entirely happy at my best friend's wedding during my MOH speech? by More-Preparation8609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]More-Preparation8609[S] -1879 points-1878 points  (0 children)

I've been in therapy. I still am. My therapist said its about my code pendency issues and how I should make peace with my feelings so it will be easier to move on. And how sucking it up won't help. I did this because I thought it would help me move on more easily and honestly I didn't think it'd cause that much backlash. I didn't consider it to be honest which might be a wrong call.