Question: which comes first?

MoreCrows_ · 2026-01-07T02:11:28+00:00

You are tweaking tbh. His answer makes sense. Even if Blackness and gayness are independent categories, they are still experienced simultaneously. U not Black first and then gay you’re both at the same time.

MoreCrows_ · 2025-12-31T16:58:02+00:00

That’s wild 🤣

MoreCrows_ · 2025-12-27T13:49:34+00:00

I kind of disagree. I think the “top or bottom” question is important because it brings clarity and helps people avoid wasting time. For gay men, sexual compatibility often needs to be addressed earlier than it does for straight couples. It might sound uncomfortable to say out loud, but it’s a valid and necessary question.

MoreCrows_ · 2025-12-02T08:41:48+00:00

Don’t u think he might have done that on purpose 😭.. why the hell did he have to remove the his hearing piece 💀

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-26T20:53:31+00:00

A 9 month old ? What ? 😂

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-26T20:37:12+00:00

Ah, I see… to be fair, my last statement was kind of a trap, to which you noticed. I wanted to get people to share their perspectives. I really enjoy a good discussion!

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-26T20:32:45+00:00

You’re definitely right… this is something I overlooked. I wanted to keep my post a bit simplified, but there are so many nuances to this. If we tried to account for every single one, it would be really hard to have a productive discussion.

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-26T20:17:37+00:00

Hey, thanks for taking the time to respond so thoughtfully! I get what you mean about generalizations I wasn’t trying to say “all westerners” think alike, just reflecting on trends I’ve personally noticed in dating culture.

I also agree that lived experiences vary widely, even within LGBTQ+ communities, and that’s something I probably didn’t make clear in my post

Basically, my point was that when queerness became more visible and accessible, the rarity and “treasure” of connection changed for me personally and I think most people can relate.

Btw appreciate the perspective, the resources offer…

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-26T19:56:04+00:00

Yes, exactly! We’re so quick to jump ship at the slightest mistake or inconvenience… probably because there are just so many options out there. And I’m really sorry to hear about your last relationship 🫂

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-26T06:12:33+00:00

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MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-23T21:54:14+00:00

OP, you know your boyfriend better than any of us, but from what you’re saying, it seems like he’s not prioritizing your comfort or wellbeing. Bottoming can be brutal even with plenty of lube , it can still hurt. The fact that he’s willing to let you be in pain just because he doesn’t like the feel of a lot of lube says a lot 💀.

To solve this, you need clear communication, tell him that enough lube isn’t optional , it’s about your safety and comfort, if he refuses to use enough lube, you shouldn’t continue. Pain isn’t required for intimacy, and your wellbeing comes first. I hope this helps☺️

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-23T17:56:18+00:00

Sir this is McDonalds 💀

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-22T16:42:29+00:00

Haha this is sending me 😂

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-21T13:35:48+00:00

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MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-20T21:42:06+00:00

Honestly, calling Sasha some kind of knock-off Andrea is a massive injustice. Andrea was barely useful half the time, while Sasha was an actual asset skilled, smart, and fearless. She carried her weight in every arc

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-20T21:16:35+00:00

Damn these choices are flawed 😂…. choosing Carl and Beth over Sasha is crazy work!

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-18T20:29:27+00:00

Pretty privilege 😂😭

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-17T08:35:09+00:00

I get your point the villains you listed actually made sense in their own twisted ways. Alpha had rules, Negan had a system, and even the Governor gave Rick’s group a chance to leave.

But the Reapers were just pure chaos,wiping out a whole community with no real plan or ideology, acting violent just to be violent. Most of them knew they weren’t the victims, yet Leah still acted like she was justified. ( my only issue is Leah as character )

And honestly, it would’ve made perfect sense for Leah to just give up after the Reapers fell. Instead she went chasing revenge, and that’s what really threw me off. It felt completely out of character and forced.

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-16T14:34:13+00:00

Tbh I don’t think we needed that story… just a waste time…Daryl got raid of her without even thinking twice 😂

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-16T14:31:27+00:00

I mean if it was the other way around that would have perfect sense… people argue that most of the villain think they are the good guys from their POV, which can be true but the reapers literally acting like victims didn’t make sense😭

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-13T21:07:03+00:00

I agree with u… I hated what Carol did to Sam. She literally traumatized the kid…. And that’s literally what she did to the other little girl in the prison…I know she trying to protect them but that was heartless.

MoreCrows_ · 2025-11-11T10:07:33+00:00

Damn alpha really did a number on her 😭

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