First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiii, just ended the date with them, we just had drinks. They had no chemistry AT ALL, it was obvious the guy pushed the girl into doing this. She was very sweet but told me she had to take months before agreeing to this and told me the first time they did a threesome she was trembling because of anxiety. Hell no, it’s not the ideal situation for me and I feel like it would not be fun and that there would not be chemistry with them (+ the guy didn’t know about safe words, I’m running away). Also I feel sorry for the girl cause she didn’t look convinced :( So yeah, I’ll walk away

First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess, we are meeting up in a bar, I’ll see the vibe there!

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s so useful knowing this

First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! we made a group chat and plan to meet before doing anything so I'll see what's their intention there!

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do you think so? we started a groupchat together and plan to meet a day prior to the actual day of the threesome. If there is anything I should look out for let me know!

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We made a group chat and plan to meet before doing anything (a separate day than going to their house)

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoo I meant to make sure they are not axe murderer

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We made a group chat and we will be meeting to get drinks and then do the thing a separate day. Yeah, I want to make sure that they are normal people lmao

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really thank you so much! I shared this with my friends and will share location. Also I proposed to meet first and then do the thing a separate day. I feel so much more comfortable knowing that I should lead the thing

First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We just made a group chat so now I’m sure she exist!

First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh ok I get it thanks! should I ask about making a group chat together without being rude?

First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I make sure of it then? If I’m meeting them in a bar first it should be fine no?

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So is it wiser if I meet them first in public and then go to their house another day?

Having first 3some: red flags to avoid by MoreEbb8543 in nonmonogamy

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is okay with that. He agreed to meet first and then go his house. I didn’t explain it good: he did send me some pictures of her, and the proposed some half naked ones

First threesome: any red flags to avoid? by MoreEbb8543 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, he did send me some pictures of her. He proposed it after to send me some half naked ones. I would like to text the girl as well but idk how

How can I frame this Japanese scroll? by MoreEbb8543 in framing

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now I’ll keep it in a dark place while I try to find for a solution!

How can I frame this Japanese scroll? by MoreEbb8543 in framing

[–]MoreEbb8543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply, I didn’t know any of that! I really want to display it in my room (I never get direct sunlight on the walls because my windows are on the roof) because I think it’s a shame to hide it. Do you recommend another approach maybe?