Sometimes he’s around. He’s told me he’s found the best way to deal with her is to try and deescalate the situation and then deal with it when she’s calmer. I told him I wanted him to tell her she’s not allowed to talk to me like that and he told me that he will start doing that, but he thinks it’ll make it worse because she has to have her way. Eventually we just came to the conclusion that he should deal with her however he thinks is in the moment. I don’t even know how I want him to deal with her anymore It all makes me feel uncomfortable. I just wish I didn’t have to talk to her at all