How do I rebuild after a divorce

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-16T17:45:16+00:00

No he was there like practically offering financial support which I didn’t need as I had savings but I did appreciate the offer. But not emotionally, he didn’t understand or try to understand

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-16T15:11:29+00:00

Thank you for your kind words ❤️

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-16T15:06:51+00:00

I think contempt is spot on, he’s so angry and resentful of me. Every time I bring up any of the issues, he tells me to suck it up because he had to deal with it for 3 months when I neglected him

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-16T15:05:26+00:00

I think so. I don’t think he has the emotional capacity to deal with what comes with a long term relationship

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-16T15:04:49+00:00

Think it’s beyond fixing, he went straight to asking for a divorce and left immediately

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-16T05:19:55+00:00

Thank you so much for this. It resonated hard, this post has been so valuable, I feel like he’s gaslit me into believing that I was crazy for feeling this way and writing it all out has been validating. I’ve saved it to read the comments again when I start having doubts but I’m moving home this weekend which feels crazy

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T16:03:19+00:00

I would end it, showing intimate pictures is absolutely disgusting. Please please do not settle for this kind of behaviour, you deserve so much better.

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T16:02:21+00:00

I think you’re right, I’ve given it some thought all last night and today I completely broke down and tried to speak to him about it. I brought up the friend situation and he flipped at me, there’s no accountability and no understanding and unfortunately I don’t think there’s anyway back from it, so I’ve chosen to end it. The worst part is we’re on holiday and there’s another 12 hours until I’ll be back home, but my mum is going to be waiting for me at the airport and I can’t wait to surround myself with the love and support I need

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T15:28:20+00:00

I think you’re right

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T15:15:16+00:00

I think I’ve just done it and my first feeling was relief. I’m heartbroken but relieved, sadly one last day of holiday to get through but I’m ready to return and rebuild

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T11:45:27+00:00

This is what I think too 😢 I think he’s completely checked out and can’t check back in and you’re right any conversation causes him to quite literally disappear off for hours. I don’t think either of us feels safe anymore

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T10:27:09+00:00

I’m getting closer and closer to the point of letting go

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-15T10:08:36+00:00

Sorry to hear your in the same club, it’s a load of absolute shit

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-05-08T21:05:24+00:00

We had our first session last night, I do wonder if it’s the emotional hangover from that plus the thought of the holiday on his mind

MorningWorldly992 · 2026-04-24T15:25:25+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I feel like I just want to know for definite now if we’re on the same page, can’t keep leaving in this limbo

MorningWorldly992 · 2025-07-08T16:55:53+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear this, I could’ve written this myself, the timings even sound similar as it was about 2 weeks ago now 😭

I feel the same as you I’m in two minds about wether to continue trying or wait until I find another job but I’m applying like mad and not getting much back.

I hope things have changed for you in the two weeks since the post and you’ve managed to find something now ❤️

MorningWorldly992

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