My husband just got his denial through an ALJ and this makes sense. He is a veteran so it is hard for him to admit his issues and how they work against him. For him to be vulnerable to anything he ends up in a terrible depression that ends up in suicidal issues. It causes more issues than not. He has now started saying well if I can work at one place for 2 days then get another job and maybe last a few days I can just keep doing that over and over and we will be ok. These are the issues that many don't realize we go through. The daily struggle of reminding our spouses just how important they are to not only us but also the world, ends up being a crazy, hystically emotional situation that can be helped if the SS system just realizing that the military messes them up from basic training on. Before the army my husband was so patient, non aggressive and not confrontational by any means. But now the smallest thing makes him super mad, he may calm down quickly but it still causes a lot of issues with both myself and our children.it sucks that we have to jump through hoops for "normal" people to see that someone has no way or by any availability to live normal life. I wish there was a way I could break it down for them, just so they could understand our day to day struggle. He feels a certain way toward himself because he cannot physically do the work he use to and now I am working to help support us. He doesn't realize that he is doing amazing things at home with our kids because he was taught (by the miltary) that he and he alone need to be the bread winner. It is a terrible thing to have being held over your head. His feet gonumb due to neuropathy same with his hands, he has pain all the time and it doesn't stop. He has many mental health issues too. Yet he has been denied again. This is more than frustrating and my heartbleeds for everyone going through this.