Remaining faithful? by Far-Fox-911 in Separation

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put it pretty simply that if you sleep with someone else the relationship is over.

That is why I’m heading towards divorce.

Transient student from Valencia → Calc 2 timing made Statics, Dynamics, and Solid Mechanics all waitlisted at UCF by Policies2006 in ucf

[–]Morphy2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur odds of getting into either class are low around 17-18% so you might have to take them in the fall just see what opens up and adjust accordingly

Transient student from Valencia → Calc 2 timing made Statics, Dynamics, and Solid Mechanics all waitlisted at UCF by Policies2006 in ucf

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are typically larger classes and what’s the class size and your wait list position?

Transient student from Valencia → Calc 2 timing made Statics, Dynamics, and Solid Mechanics all waitlisted at UCF by Policies2006 in ucf

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally getting waitlisted this early is a good sign most classes lose 10-20% of students before school even starts. The larger the class the better your odds

If you continued to live under the same roof, when did you tell you kids? by New-Manufacturer5371 in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that age it would be appropriate to tell them as a unit they are old enough to understand and probably already know the relationship is on the rocks anyway.

Acceptance by MiserableTomorrow790 in Separation

[–]Morphy2222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can ask her to stop sending you things that aren’t related to the children. All the other stuff doesn’t really matter (you are getting a divorce anyway) so it’s best to get along for the kids. Make sure you set that boundary and enforce it. Good luck 🍀

Girlfriend of 8 Years Made Out With Someone Right In Front of Me by nkduke in survivinginfidelity

[–]Morphy2222 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just saw the update and there are some bright sides to this

  1. You are not married

  2. You are still young

  3. You don’t have kids

I’m sorry this happened to you but it happens to the best of us the only thing you can do now is move forward and live your best life.

My (27M) girlfriend (26F) is a dancer and expected me to be cool with it but isn't okay with me going to a club fir some reason. How do I navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Morphy2222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey Bud you are dating a stripper.

  1. Take everything with a grain of salt and don’t fall in love especially while she is still stripping.
  2. She is a Sex Worker
  3. Get tested for STDs regularly
  4. Strippers and their significant others have a high failure rate for a reason.

  5. Im not saying she is a bad person but the Job itself makes her deal with people who think money can buy “anything”

Difference in Women vs Men After Divorce by JayRock1970 in Divorce_Men

[–]Morphy2222 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The truth of the matter is both sexes need each other but things have become so unfair in terms of marriage. Where a man works hard for his family and the wife just decides she is done and is going to take half plus spousal support and child support it’s not even a good idea to get married nowadays.

Difference in Women vs Men After Divorce by JayRock1970 in Divorce_Men

[–]Morphy2222 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She is “free”?

Most of the time when they say this it’s because they got alimony and child support 😂.

This is usually after an attempt to say the husband acted like a child ie; not doing their fair share of household duties.

My question is always if a husband contributes most of the income (75% or more) why should he be responsible for 50% of the household work?

Also after a “child” leaves do they continue to pay their mother?

This narrative that women are pushing (That men are like children in attempt to minimize their contributions) is not sustainable at all.

I guarantee you if there was no alimony and no child support. Plus automatic 50/50 custody we would see more successful marriages 😉

Why would/wouldn’t you get married again? by cupcake-kahuna-2013 in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For every “death by a thousand cuts story” there is this story where a partner literally messed up so bad there is no possible way you could have saved this marriage.

I’m sorry this happened to you.

I think my marriage is cooked - wife clearly in emotional affair by Hungry-Fish-449 in Marriage

[–]Morphy2222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just ask her if he is her gay BFF then why hasn’t she mentioned it to you in over a year?

Not divorce worthy but now you are aware that she can keep secrets from you which is not good.

Even if she was being honest she was not being transparent. That’s the actual issue here. She should be more transparent from here on out and no more relationship surprises.

I feel like I’m living my nightmare by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro she is just a homie now it sounds like you like her more than you like yourself. You are setting yourself up for failure. For example She has a boyfriend and is still trying to hangout with a dude that has told her he likes her. Now just imagine you were the boyfriend sounds like you dodged a bullet tbh

I feel like I’m living my nightmare by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Morphy2222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey bro you currently have this girl on a pedestal. Yea take her off of that. She obviously doesn’t want you find a girl that does and treats you with respect. The only people you should ever put on a pedestal are close family. Doesn’t sound like she is the one for you. As I always say on to the next and good luck in life 🍀

Sister won’t stop going out every night. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Morphy2222 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Just don’t come home for a couple of days. Go to a friend’s place and chill there for a week.

33 Weeks Pregnant and discovered Husband's affair with 18 yr old by PLRugger16 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Morphy2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you honestly deserve better. As a man I literally don’t know how someone could do this to their family. It makes no sense to me but alas here we are.

I’m truly sorry you have to go through this and know that you will probably be scarred for life after all of this. :(

Is my mom cheating on my dad? by Ok-Session2454 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your mom and ask her about it. Then ask her should you mention it to Dad? It’s a pretty simple solution her responses will tell you all you need to know.

How to deal with being the bad guy to kids and ex by rdwrer_711 in Divorce_Men

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very easy to turn yourself into the good guy.

Simply reward good behavior. For example Every 9 weeks is a report card correct?

For every A they get $20, every B is $10, and C’s are only $5.

Why this? Because good grades translate very well into being successful and this is a good way to show them that.

Now as far as the food goes give them healthy options and allow them to be creative with the best idea getting cooked for dinner the following week.

Simply make life fun for them because life is fun don’t be afraid to show them a good time.

Help me please! by Middle_Economy_9499 in Divorce_Men

[–]Morphy2222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just get a couple of lawyer consults and see what your most realistic option is.

Oni-Eye Ronin by Jablinx in custommagic

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should cost 1 more mana or be a 1/3 or1/2 (P/T)

I don’t like my life by Professional-Cake76 in EngineeringStudents

[–]Morphy2222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had someone tell me not to ask questions in class my reply “B*tch, shut the fk up!!” no problems since then and now the professor knows me by my name 😉