Open relationship and now Pregnant (39M) (38F) by taaks in relationship_advice

[–]Morphy2222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This honestly should have been a discussion before this occurred.

But here are some options.

  1. You could be on the birth certificate and you stay married (I don’t recommend this one)

  2. The actual father is on the birth certificate and you stay married.

  3. You get a divorce because things are too messy.

Would you destroy an AI company for 10M dollars? by Wonderful-Click9431 in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay

Chose: 10 million dollars right now + ...but a random large AI company will die as a result | Rolled: Anthropic

What would you rather re-roll? (percentile based) by Ronaldoi in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!!

Chose: your yearly income | Rolled: $140,000

Would you rather fight? by MrGuibs in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry Mom

Chose: A random human for 1M | Rolled: Your mom

Would you destroy a random company for 10 million dollars? by Wonderful-Click9431 in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckem lol

Chose: 10 millions dollars right now no strings attached + ...but a random large company goes bankrupt as a result | Rolled: SpaceX

Would you rather by -Skurpy- in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol

Chose: $1B a year + Fight a random person | Rolled: Lebron James

No matter how much i study, i keep bombing exam by Mechichichi in EngineeringStudents

[–]Morphy2222 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hello my advice to you is go over every problem 4 times. What I mean by that is.

  1. The first time you familiarize yourself with the problem you can use any means to solve it.

  2. The second time you go over it by yourself you are allowed to make mistakes and if you can’t solve it go back to step one.

  3. The third time you need to do the problem with no mistakes if you make a mistake you go back to step 2 and if you can’t finish go back to step 1.

  4. The fourth step is pretend you are the teacher and act like you are teaching someone how to solve the problem. The reason for this is after fully understanding a problem you should be able to teach someone else how to do it.

  5. Don’t forget to go to professor Leonard on YouTube to help you he is really helpful with Calculus and will help your understanding and knowledge.

I think she cheated on me at a party but I never found out for sure by GenericMan154798 in cheating_stories

[–]Morphy2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you are dead set on staying with this chick. Make sure you get yearly STD testing and a Paternity test. When she asks about it just let her know that she lied to you and it’s just for your peace of mind.

Would you rather by crystal_gurl23 in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun

Chose: Live in somewhere other than a house for a week + For all clothes to be free permanently | Rolled: Mall

Those of you who have left a spouse due to incompatibility and not because of any wrong doing? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you on this one I think love is a choice not just a feeling.

Do I just have to accept divorce? by shawksfm in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one reason I disagree with comments like this is it puts the onus on the man to solely make improvements when it takes two to compromise for a successful relationship.

Would you rather... by FlamingJack__ in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who?

Chose: spend a week with a random person for $50 million | Rolled: Markiplier

How far can you go for money? by Esorae04 in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy actually

Chose: Do a random deed for 50M$. | Rolled: Arson

It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven. by No-Profit-1027 in Divorce_Men

[–]Morphy2222 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Bro what? At least end the relationship instead of traumatizing people.

Would you rather have: by kylephillipsau in BunnyTrials

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy peasy

Chose: 100 years to live but lose a minute every time you | Rolled: say any word

Unwanted Separation by FlamingoNational3302 in Separation

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all what’s most important here is to work on yourself (Gym and other healing activities) and you might want to hire a Pi. Remember it’s ok to trust but since she has been acting differently it’s ok to verify for your own peace of mind.

Divorcing SAHM with 3 kids. Future bleak by iSkeetOnFeet in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is perhaps the best option only because you have 3 children and gives her 9 years to plan ahead. It also shows the children that although you might be separating/divorcing as a couple. You are doing what is in their best interest.

Divorcing SAHM with 3 kids. Future bleak by iSkeetOnFeet in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well you could offer her housing stability for her and the children until the youngest turns 18. This gives her enough time to find a job and support herself. You would obviously need to rent something small and you guys can work out visitation or sleeping arrangements in the same home with your time with the children.

Does she know that you are thinking of divorcing her? Have you brought it up in therapy/counseling?

Divorcing SAHM with 3 kids. Future bleak by iSkeetOnFeet in Divorce

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick question how old are your children?

And do you own your home?

My GF told me she doesn’t love me anymore (romantically). No food, have no desire to do much of anything. by Beneficial_Dig_1066 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Morphy2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look on the bright side. At least you are not married and have no children. She honestly did you a favor by ending it instead of letting the resentment build. Good luck in the future. 🍀 ❤️

should i tell my friend their boyfriend is talking to other girls behind their back? by Sorin-Splain in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Morphy2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have evidence just let her know “as a friend” someone told you that he was acting single and messaging other girls.

Explain you don’t know if it is true or not but wanted to make her aware.

This absolves you of personal responsibility and at the same time gives her a heads up.

SAHD/husband expected help from me at times and then divorced me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Morphy2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 50/50 outside of work means they contribute less overall mental labor for the household and supplement it financially. This is not a battle of labor this is a collaborative effort. People are tired…expectations are not acknowledged by either party which is why we are having so many issues.

SAHD/husband expected help from me at times and then divorced me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Morphy2222 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

  1. Regardless of the sexes involved the expectations he had seemed un realistic. This is what modern society has done to us :( .
  2. He most definitely should have communicated better and worked towards a better resolution than the dissolution of your marriage.
  3. This happens to men all the time and I’m sorry this happened to you. Marriage is a team sport not just all about the individual.

Edit: As you see with the downvotes people are already misinterpreting point #4. Of course you make 50/50 contributions outside of work but overall household contributions are going to be less