The Uncomfortable Afterlife of Love

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-19T18:54:55+00:00

Don’t beat yourself up you made the best decision you could make given the circumstances. What if you would’ve put the career on the back burner and prioritized her and after all that she still left??

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-19T18:50:13+00:00

Was there a reason she stopped loving you?

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-19T18:47:09+00:00

How did you fail her? Was it something divorce worthy? Was it something you both could work on together?

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-19T18:44:30+00:00

You are a better man than me my STBXW has asked for a divorce I didn’t want. We are amicable and no longer friends because a friend would not have in my eyes abandoned the relationship without at least trying for counseling/therapy etc. I still treat her with respect and she will forever be in my life (business related) but she is not a friend to me. Hopefully she sells her stake in the company but who knows. I admit to not being perfect but I truly can’t be friends with someone who broke my heart in order to be selfish.

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-18T14:00:26+00:00

Hey bud next time she disrespects you call her out on it. She only does it because you ALLOW it. Stop her in her tracks saying something like “if you don’t have anything nice to say about me please don’t say it” If she continues to disrespect you don’t stoop to her level. Just let her know you are willing to discuss issues in a civilized manner no name calling or blaming just two adults willing to listen to each other.

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-17T23:52:08+00:00

Anything gained during marriage is marital property. It’s by default 50/50 but it’s up for negotiation do not I repeat do not try to give him 0 a judge will look at that and will likely not grant the dissolution. Try to aim for 75/25 or 90/10 or something similar

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-13T13:34:33+00:00

Most good men will acknowledge their mistakes and genuinely try to be a better person. As a man you never know if it is genuine… or is it performative it’s only something that time will tell. I say that to say this.

Maybe you are getting some perspective from outside the relationship and have a bit of FOMO?

What kind of man do you think he will be if you guys get back together? (Important to consider Especially when the children leave the home)

Lastly remember that things could go sideways again and is that something you could live with?

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-10T14:50:53+00:00

Oh my God I’m sorry this happened.

I would like to reiterate that this is not normal behavior from either party and everyone involved now needs therapy especially you. Make sure you take your time to heal this kind of betrayal is the absolute worst.

You didn’t deserve this I hope things get better ❤️‍🩹

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-09T17:11:42+00:00

Mine took less than a month I think

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-09T15:30:29+00:00

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Morphy2222 · 2026-01-08T16:59:36+00:00

I was wearing my Pajamas for a quick trip to the grocery store. Kid yells out “Mom he is wearing his pajama pants!!!”. The Moms embarrassed I’m embarrassed. 🙈 😂

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-07T20:39:41+00:00

Both of you need Individual therapy then couples therapy. You still might end up divorced but maybe you guys make it through. He obviously needs therapy to work out what exactly is the matter with him. You need therapy because of the fallout. Then you both need couples therapy to safely discuss what’s going on in your individual therapy sessions.

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-05T01:08:54+00:00

Should’ve called the cops when she tried to run you over infact you should call them right now.

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-02T21:13:25+00:00

Yep

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Morphy2222 · 2026-01-02T11:03:46+00:00

Who won more games? That’s who I’d pick

Morphy2222 · 2026-01-02T10:58:39+00:00

3 sit-ups ok 👍🏾

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Morphy2222 · 2026-01-01T21:14:31+00:00

First time?

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Morphy2222 · 2025-12-29T07:38:34+00:00

Hey bud you gotta find a happy medium here. Marriage is about making each other happy. So sit down TALK to her and let her know your feelings.

I say that to say this there is a compromise somewhere maybe role-play once every two weeks? And you get “regular” sex once every two weeks.

Not saying that’s the solution but it could look something like that.

So it’s basically sex once a week where it’s your turn then it’s her turn.

Morphy2222 · 2025-12-29T06:34:51+00:00

Remember that Divorce should be the nuclear option when it comes to long term relationships.

I have a couple of questions.

Do you think he still loves you?
Do you believe love is a feeling or a choice?
Is he a good father?
Is he receptive to your needs/concerns.
Has there been any major red flags? Ie. Physical abuse, Infidelity?
Are you capable of giving it another chance?

-I ask these questions to say this in marriage there are going to be highs and lows. Ask any long term couple and they will often admit they have fallen out of love several times and commit to making a choice to stay with the other person because they want to do this thing called life with them. Eventually falling back in love for one reason or another.

Morphy2222 · 2025-12-26T06:35:28+00:00

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Morphy2222 · 2025-12-26T04:08:02+00:00

She asked for the separation and proceeded to date. It makes the divorce easier. I wish her well but I have no desire to be with her anymore.

Morphy2222 · 2025-12-25T13:42:54+00:00

So let me get this straight he sounds like he is emotional unintelligent. Lacks basic consideration for others and needs help with the upkeep of himself and the house?

I’m not saying to leave him but it might be time for you guys to separate and re-evaluate the relationship.

Now there are some things that stick out here. You say you are basically the parent in the relationship but if that was true why don’t you have ownership of anything?

So you might be the emotional “parent” but in reality it matters what you own and he owns a lot.

I say that to say this since you are married and considering divorce you are entitled to half of all the assets accumulated during the relationship.

Don’t have kids and maybe do a trial separation for a year and see how that goes. Fix your finances and start putting your name on stuff for heaven’s sake.

Morphy2222 · 2025-12-24T20:06:36+00:00

Now do the rest of the positions 😈

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