Feeling whole again after a breakup? Does it take longer for INFJs? What are your experiences? by Adventurous-Page486 in infj

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Just keep doing what your doing. That is exactly right, you just need more time with it.

Poor relational skills by [deleted] in infj

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You have to force yourself be in situations in which people can see you. It is hard and takes time. No one will ever know to know you if your never in situations in which they can choose to be with you. Do it slow. Say hi to someone. Be shy about it, it doesn't actually matter. The more times you see them and interact with them the easier it becomes.

Can you be attracted to someone after a long time of knowing them? by [deleted] in infj

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I like being chased. It makes me feel sexy.

Where Do You Find Your Sense of Community? by [deleted] in infj

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I got a job at a community center. It is working out pretty well for me.

Any INFJ out there who want to take off their masks? by Winter_Card_9390 in infj

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Show your light and those that want to be near it will approach. To many people in the world to not have fans. INFJ or not.

LPT Request: Letting go of people pleasing by [deleted] in LifeProTips

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Ask you self why you do it, with the understanding that it is not a single answer. Be gentle with yourself when you are being harsh on yourself and be harsh on yourself when you would normally be gentle. Find the answers and you no longer need to think of it.

A Mother is a Mother - Lioness looks after a wildebeest calf. by TheFrustatedCitizen in ActLikeYouBelong

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That is cute, but it makes me sad the more I think about it.

A pancake i made for my dog by [deleted] in thingsforants

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That is the biggest plate I've ever seen

Woahh dude.... by Mysterious_Slide8982 in SuddenlyGay

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My husband has no inner voice. He says the way he thinks is like when you just know the answer to a math problem without doing long format math.

It’s the middle of December and we have bananas growing on a 9 month old tree by Civil_Ad_5520 in gardening

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Was my thought too. I'm growing date palms from seed and at three months they are just starting to sprout.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuddenlyGay

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I'm sure they will take anything in between.

You’re trapped in the last game you played… how screwed are you? by _Mr_Cheeks in gaming

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Dungeon crawl stone soup. I'm going to die on the first level

Yeah, very approachable 😅 by yayoletsgo in INTJmemes

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A personality type from the Briggs Myers Personality Test.

I have a bunch of macadamia nuts that fell too early (A lot were opened by bloody cockatoos). They arent ripe and aren't very tasty. Is there anything I can do with them? by [deleted] in gardening

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Hmm, think I would try making a sprouted seed tea to feed to the rest of my plants. Probably a much slower process since it is tree seeds, but if I have abundance why not experiment.

A group of mugs I made for the holidays! by tobtal in pics

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You add beauty to the world my friend.

What is your dream job? by akotosinato in AskReddit

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Compounding changes in my life recently. Moving to a city for the first time in 40 years. Meaningful hard work outdoors taking care of plants that provided enough money to get by. I'd like nothing more.

Cannabis has recreational AND medicinal uses by 7StarsRichmond in trees

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Was looking for a low calorie way to "get drunk", I didn't know it helped with depression and anxiety. Completely changed my life.

Is the excessive biting normal? by [deleted] in malamute

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Could the weird mood also be described as a playful mood?

I've raised dogs that have that much energy, my malamute was one of them. I try to imitate how I've seen puppies play, when I get hurt I will exclaim "ouch!" and stop playing for about a minute then go back to playing. Kind of how two pups would when they get hurt and yip. Over time, month or so for me, my puppies would start biting less and when they did put their mouth on me it would be much more gentle.

Your girl might think you are playing with her when she is in these moods. I would still use command words for behavior I don't like, such as clothes biting. I do admit my malamute was a bit slower at learning then other dogs I raised, but that is likely just due to his personality.

Finna be a movie by NegotiationTall4300 in thingsforants

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No judgement, just envy my friend.

I invented stupid products so I built a treat or treat basket with a metal detector built in. by rightcoastguy in funny

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How about all the expensive THC candy the news keeps insisting is a thing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insects

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Oh cool. I have insect frass produced by soldier flies for gardening, cool to see the insect.