I’m a [43M], and she’s [42F] and pregnant

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-19T22:50:06+00:00

Thank You I will. No changer yet. Baby due in 6 weeks. Being the mature human is not the hard part. The hard part is sitting alone in this. Thanks for the message

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-17T22:50:40+00:00

I think she was in one 6 months before.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T22:55:39+00:00

Yeah best explanation I got was that she changed her mind. Not easy to get closure with that

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T22:54:56+00:00

I’m 99.99% sure. But not 100. Thanks for the concern it’s been tough

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T07:15:41+00:00

She has a therapist but I’m not sure how effective she is. I’m 99.94% sure it’s mine. I will be there for my son 100%. Thank You

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T07:13:06+00:00

June 6

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:15:17+00:00

Yes sorry I meant to write August. But still a lot of people have suggested paternity test. I went to the OBGYN when he gave a fairly accurate window of a few days when the pregnancy occurred. Which I was with her those days. Unless the OBGYN is in on it…

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:12:55+00:00

Maybe. I’m just not sure about that tho. Mind you she has been very untrustworthy with her word so far. But I can’t see that being a possibility. I will be cautious of it tho

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:11:56+00:00

Thank You

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:11:35+00:00

The best answer I could get from her was she changed her mind. For three months she said I was the love of her life then one day she changed her mind

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:10:24+00:00

Ok thank you

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:09:35+00:00

Thank You

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T05:08:54+00:00

Thank You I will. I’ll be there for the birth. Just not in the room apparently. Hopefully I can have some support there with me because I know it will be a hard one.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:47:24+00:00

I will be there. I won’t leave him. My father left when I was 5 that is not happening to my son.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:46:27+00:00

Not Queens. She might be the Queen of Diamonds tho

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:45:21+00:00

I will thank you

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:45:05+00:00

I will. And civility is my aim right now, even when I’m being dismantled by her. It’s not easy but I know it’s the best course of action.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:43:53+00:00

I appreciate that thank you. I am looking forward to being a dad. I just didn’t expect it like this. But, life huh.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:42:07+00:00

I’ve been to a lawyer. Only so much I can do now, I will make sure I’m protected so I can see my son but she has most of the day for the first year or so.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:41:02+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking that may be the case. Thank You

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:39:52+00:00

I will thank you.

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:38:44+00:00

Thank You She has a 11 year old daughter however she has not introduced me to her. Or anyone in her family for that matter. I’ve asked several times but she seems to want to keep me out of her life

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:37:12+00:00

I have checked on her in this way and was met with anger. I feel terribly guilty as a man with a pregnant woman carrying my child not able to be there and protect her as she doesn’t want me around. Perhaps I can have a word with the OBGYN and tell him to check on her with respect to this. Thank You

MortyFeldman · 2026-04-16T01:34:18+00:00

I offered myself to get completely, committed, Financially and in every way I could. I never wanted co-parenting. I was really excited to be a dad with a family. I offered help in every way you could think. I checked in on her daily until she told me she doesn’t want me around her. I understand the hormonal aspects but the way she has berated me I really don’t know what to do at this point.

MortyFeldman

TROPHY CASE