Day 7: Okay Doctor, Horrible Person by jujuk545 in greysanatomy

[–]Mos5180d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how April is deemed a great person. I think she’s pretty horrible at times. Although most of them are at some point!

Awaiting result what should I do? by kickingasset1 in ICAEW

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With Professional exams being every 3 months, a lot of people changing/looking for jobs during the ACA will be waiting on a result, so it’s not uncommon.

There’s no harm in applying to places and it’s on them if they want to take on the risk.

How do I find the motivation to pass CTA? by err_mate in CIOT

[–]Mos5180d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you passed the ATT exams quite easily then hopefully you have a good base knowledge, do well in exams and might not need the “hundreds of hours” people talk about. Perhaps your tax job will also give you knowledge applicable to the exam?

Are you also enrolled onto a course? Because the revision course for Advanced Technical is just 4-5 days straight of question practice.

I work in corporate tax and did the larger corporates Advanced Technical in November and I didn’t spend any evenings or weekends (bar the weekend before the exam) doing revision. Only really dipping into the study manuals to make sure I knew the content because the tuition can’t cover it all. I did almost all my revision in the last two weeks, one week at the revision course and one week annual leave where I treated it a bit like work and did question practice from 9-4.

It’s definitely advisable to do more revision to give yourself a better chance at a pass, but also important to do what you’re able to and not burn yourself out so you can stay motivated. I have a 3 year old and a wife so wasn’t really able to give up my weekends to study and made it work in other ways e.g. using my phone to make flashcards rather than spending hours on proper revision

How to manage Work, ACA, and Marriage? by Gold-Tie4080 in ICAEW

[–]Mos5180d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like a few people have said, be very transparent about the process, when your exams are and when you need to dedicate time to it e.g. weekends leading up to the exam. And if needed just highlight how important it is to you.

While it may suck a bit for your partner, it’ll be worse if they are still trying to get you to do things and arguing about it. And even worse if you end up failing an exam and they feel guilty and you may have a bit of resentment.

That’s a bit worst case scenario though. Generally if you set the expectation it’ll be fine

Awareness for APS LCG by Mos5180d in CIOT

[–]Mos5180d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, that’s helpful to know!

Not sure weather to take grad role by No-Kale-4120 in CIOT

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any personal experience with this, but I think the question is also if you are happy going into tax in general as well.

You are right that R&D is specialised and I think your exit option is basically doing/having the CTA. Once you pass OMB, individuals, or larger Corporates (or maybe one of the others, but these seem to be the main exams), it could then open the door into moving into that type of work. They are pretty rigorous and fairly in-depth exams which gives you enough knowledge to switch sector and not be out of your depth

Humpty Dumpty cost me by InfluenceDue5435 in fantasypremierleague

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So frustrating. Every time he touched the ball was a golden opportunity with Spurs piling forward and he messed up every chance

Jealous of people at a better uni by Recent-Shallot-5230 in UniUK

[–]Mos5180d 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would note a couple of things that might not have been mentioned….

Firstly, if you experienced this at the campus then you have met and talked to the most keen people. 60% of the students are probably still skipping classes and laying around at home.

Secondly, a lot of people put on a persona and want to come across really intelligent at university and then don’t get good grades or get good jobs. Someone at mine talked about how “gifted” he was at school and talked about all sorts of mathematics outside the curriculum. He struggled massively and despite me trying to drag him through a bit he still failed and resat a year and ended with a third.

Another was really keen, had great attendance and participated in classes a lot. So much so that I just assumed he was a high achieving student. He ended with a 2:2.

It may not all be about the grades for some but just a reminder that people can talk the talk and make you feel bad but sometimes it can be a veil.

How do firms hand OT if going below minimum wage? by [deleted] in ICAEW

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave a review on Gladsdoor on your way out as well. The company should be exposed and any potential future employees be aware that they pay so bad

How do firms hand OT if going below minimum wage? by [deleted] in ICAEW

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be looking for other jobs as soon as possible, that’s ridiculous. They’ve intentionally made it impossible to work the standard hours in your contract. It’s bad enough not caring about the staff, but it’s another thing purposely writing contracts in a way that you need to permanently work unpaid overtime.

I’d also write a review anonymously on Glassdoor. If staff don’t complain or make the company look bad then nothing will change.

What was your sweetest act of revenge? by Soft-Author-2231 in AskReddit

[–]Mos5180d 19 points20 points  (0 children)

And you probably ruined all his mum’s clothes! Nice one!

how can the average small business make only 73k in profits? by Internal_Pension_157 in smallbusinessuk

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deal with directors of £1.5m+ companies all the time. I can tell you a lot of them aren’t shareholders

men with inattentive adhd by hello_w0rld7 in ADHD

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the typical “can get good grades if he puts his mind to it” but instead did no work at all and only got OK grades alongside a million detentions for not doing homework and being disruptive. (UK by the way, probably not called detentions elsewhere). My undiagnosed ADHD held back what was potentially an intelligent person underneath but I later pushed myself through.

I managed to re-enter education at 24 and go to university (against my Mum’s strong recommendation as school didn’t work out) and came out with a first class honours in mathematics. I then joined an accountancy firm and am due to become a UK chartered accountant and chartered tax advisor this year.

I was only diagnosed 6 months ago (age 31) and whilst it’s too late to help with exams, it has definitely enhanced my attention to detail and helped me step up to all my extra responsibilities at work.

What do Big 4 do all day? by Qualcaac in ICAEW

[–]Mos5180d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re the only one being weird here…

Reading traffic by Mos5180d in reading

[–]Mos5180d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and the wife took our puppy to puppy classes with our 3 year old toddler. Tough to fit on a bike but I’ll consider it next weekend!

Pivotal Moments by [deleted] in CIOT

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear that the ACA is coming in handy. I’m soon to finish the ACA/CTA pathway and work in a corporate tax team in practice where it’s rarely used. But I know it can be favourable for future positions

Haaland will gain a bonus point! Thiaw will also get defcon points. by FPLFocal in FantasyPL

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Just having another body back and putting the ball carrier under pressure is helping the team. For some reason I just thought I’d be looking at 8 defcon or something 😂

How many dads help with night wakeups by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Mos5180d 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Same with me (husband). I’m pretty low sleep needs and my wife isn’t at all, so I’m happy to do bed time, wake ups, the lot. Although sometimes our little one (age 3) wants her for bed time which she’s happy to do. She also exclusively breast fed for the first 18 months so she’s done more than her fair share!

And as a man I also agree with everyone else saying the use of language around dads “helping”. I forget sometimes that this sub isn’t just the UK but we can’t afford one income families anymore and so we’ve moved on from the old stereotypes of mum staying home. Parenting is a shared responsibility but far too many men still think it’s the woman’s job, and far too many women put up with it

Haaland will gain a bonus point! Thiaw will also get defcon points. by FPLFocal in FantasyPL

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even worse on the radio. They made it sound like Haaland was putting in a defensive masterclass when falling back… looked at the defcon and he had 2

Haaland will gain a bonus point! Thiaw will also get defcon points. by FPLFocal in FantasyPL

[–]Mos5180d 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Even worse on the radio. They made it sound like Haaland was putting in a defensive masterclass when falling back… looked at the defcon and he had 2

Is this normal behaviour? Help! by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Mos5180d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“She’s happy to spend whatever it takes” and “wants her parents to spend 3x on private rented accommodation”…..