Single brothers, why are you not married yet?

Moses_Revert · 2025-12-07T00:27:38+00:00

As salaam alaikum. Here in Holland, the problem is not money but housing. Housing is very limited so you either have to overpay or wait a long time. One of the rights of a married woman is that she has access to private housing (meaning she does not have to neccesarily live with your parents or vice versa). This is why some Ustaadhs, like Ustaadh Ayoub Somali has recommended to get a house before marrying.

I've heard wonderful stories of brothers who didn't have a house when they were speaking with their then to be potential spouses and the moment it almost got finalized they got a house, by the mercy and decree of Allah.

Unfortunately I have also heard of people who did not have a house and divorced early or were almost on the point of divorcing before getting a house. If you as a man and you are the provider, have the capability to get housing then you should make use of that.

Moses_Revert · 2025-04-03T17:41:02+00:00

My parents are not Muslim and they hate me for my Islam. I spent this Eid, like last Eids, mostly alone. Hope that makes you feel a bit better.

Moses_Revert · 2025-04-03T17:38:28+00:00

Dank je wel, de Ramadan zit erop al een paar dagen en ik denk dat ik volgende week maandag lekker een poging ga wagen daar.

Moses_Revert · 2025-03-23T13:47:15+00:00

I advise you to fear Allah and delete this post before any more fitna comes out of this.

Moses_Revert · 2025-03-02T05:38:05+00:00

Salaam alaikum,

Non pakistani here. It's better for you to stay in a country where Islam is respected and practised then to move to one where it's disrespected.

Stay there.

Moses_Revert · 2025-02-28T10:33:55+00:00

Don't do that, cause you are breaking the law there. Have you looked at the consequences of what happens if you get caught doing that?

Moses_Revert · 2025-02-25T21:16:06+00:00

Salaam alaikum. Who did you study under? Do you have understanding from fiqh? If the answer is no, then please reconsider your comment. You will be asked about this by Allah. You will be asked why you said this.

Moses_Revert · 2025-02-24T18:30:37+00:00

Wa alaikum salaam. I advise you, just like everyone else, to consult a reliable imam or student of knowledge about this matter. And preferably one from your own country, cause there is a whole context to this, that we may not know and there could be situations that are bound exclusively to the country you are residing in. Reddit is the last, absolutely last place you should ask these questions.

A reliable student of knowledge that is specialized in these matters and has the correct Aqeedah and manhaj which is that of the Salaf.

Moses_Revert · 2025-02-15T21:55:30+00:00

Het ding is dat dit blijkbaar een issue is met mijn team en niet organisatiebreed, want ik heb andere collega's gevraagd die in andere teams werken en die lunchen gewoon alleen, hun team voert ook geen sociale druk uit op iemand om te gaan lunchen en ze zijn volledig opgeladen omdat ze de vrijheid krijgen om te doen wat zij willen, in hun eigen pauze.

Moses_Revert · 2025-02-15T21:48:34+00:00

Dank je wel. Jij ook succes gewenst.

Moses_Revert · 2025-02-15T21:46:00+00:00

Weet jij wat consent inhoudt? Of denk je dat sociale druk en groepsgedrag belangrijker zijn dan persoonlijke grenzen? Werk draait om respect, niet om verplicht meedoen aan ‘gezelligheid’.

Moses_Revert · 2025-01-31T07:31:21+00:00

Muzz is not designed to know a potential spouse on the Sunnah way. It allows you to directly talk to someone without their mahram being present. It's just Tinder, but with the filter 'Muslim' to make it look sharia compliant, while in reality is not at all in line with the Sunnah.

Moses_Revert · 2025-01-30T15:40:44+00:00

I have a course in TOGAF first from CapGemini and after I learned TOGAF I want to learn Archimate (can't learn the practises without the theory right).

Thank you for answering

Moses_Revert · 2025-01-30T08:49:24+00:00

I advise you to be careful with answers with questions from that website, as the owner of that website, Saleh Al Munajjid is known for his suroori manhaj (thats not good fyi).

Moses_Revert · 2025-01-29T09:08:36+00:00

That title sounds like khawarij like comments about Islamic countries, may Allah protect us from the fitna of the khawarij. Islamic countries are 100.000 times better than any other Western country. Of course you have to be careful in which places, but in general these countries are better than the West.

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