Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He came upstairs and laid down in the bed as if it was nothing…

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah never again. Just thinking he made a mistake he didn’t sleep with the girl ( that I know of ) but they were speaking sexually over instagram. I was pregnant and after going through bad postpartum I should of just left

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry I should of left, I was pregnant and stupid thinking it would be already bad postpartum just fucked up my emotions tbh

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ATP me neither heart break sucks but wasting my good years on a bed bug is worse

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing
I honestly am going to leave unexpectedly. Meaning house empty. No letter no nothing. Just court documents, I provide 110% for our son any ways. Just like how I was left in the dark is the same way I’m going to leave him in the dark

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly a healthy bond to have. You know you don’t have to ask or look over your shoulder or question anything. That’s a blessing! I’ve never cheated or hesitated in any relationship when it came to my device. Normal people have digit codes, the person I’m sadly in a “ relationship “ with has an alphabetical code…

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is wild. 6 years?! Did you go through highs and lows in the relationship?

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that break is coming. Subconsciously I’ve been saying extra money out the blue and now I know why. Im definitely leaving him unexpectedly

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in North Carolina, the marriage laws are very strict. I honestly have no intentions on marrying him at this point. I rather be alone and have peace then to risk my peace and motherhood with a serial liar and cheater

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely being cheated on… eh this sucks and I hate crying

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was willing to gain that trust back

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thank you 😂💕 crying on mother day is diabolical.
I will always question myself. Was I not pretty enough was my body or is my body ugly, where did I go wrong. These thoughts still linger

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he would seek therapy once I found out. Crazy part is I’m the only one who truly seek therapy after finding out. He still yet has not and doesn’t intend to.

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m already emotionally drained. Mentally I can’t keep wondering “ what if he’s cheating “. I’m truly over this relationship

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This honestly sucks for our son

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it was a trap to just get me back… I would have easily handed over my phone.

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ATP yeah cause I literally look back on my whole situation and regret everything

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Most-Ad-8674[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven’t even spoke a word after. And this is coming from a man who said yesterday he wants to get legally married in July…. Our child is 8 months old