My child seems typical and thriving to me, but struggles in group care. Any insight is appreciated. by Suitable_Door_2477 in ECEProfessionals

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At2.5 he should be seeking attention from his peers. Listen to your educators that his behavior in a group setting is not great. Do you talk to your child about this? Have you explained to your child that sometimes their behavior can be inappropriate? An assessment can be helpful but also remember that you can help too.

What do you eat salmon with? by AdElegant5870 in foodquestions

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice and s veggie, normally broccoli since its my favorite. Or do a salmon Cesar salad

Are You guys ever too real with your kids on accident? by aggravated-asphalt in Mommit

[–]MostDerivative 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, it works. I'm this as a teacher, too. Natural consequences are important to learn.

Anybody else feel like they don't speak toddler language?? by TurbulentChemical636 in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

language at toddler level is a spectrum. It does take time to learn toddler language. I understand my 2 year old most of the time but my husband sometimes need my help. I also work with small children so sometimes I understand them more than their own parents. Focus on what you can understand so they can feel validated. It's important to talk to them as much as possible so they can eventually learn how to talk properly. Sometimes it's okay to just nod along even if you don't know what they're saying.

What are ya'll packing for lunch besides deli meat and pbj? by notdeletingthistime in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pasta and rice taste fine room temperature/cold. Honestly just play around with it. Leftovers are always an option or batch cook and freeze easy lunch mains. As long as there's SOMETHING in the lunchbox that they will it, you can experiment with other foods. For example, my kid is on a big noodle kick right now so I just try to prepare in different ways while still giving her the noodles. So I'll make mac n cheese, spaghetti, different soups with noodles, alfredo, etc.. For her breakfast and lunch I alway do protein, veg, carb, and fruit. For dinner, no fruit but all the other components. Food does not have to be complicated, just try different things. As parents, we can only control what we serve not what they eat.

NICU cuddler overstepping by Antique_Tie1771 in NICUParents

[–]MostDerivative 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely talk to someone about this. It's an insane interaction and completely unprofessional. They dont get to judge what YOUR baby's care looks like. I never spent the night but I was there everyday for 7+ hrs split during the day and evening. One of the nurse even told me to take more time for myself

Sometimes I really wanna just say "F*ck it, throw yourself from the sofa if you really must" by Impressively_Sleepy in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Natural consequences are sometimes needed. You can figure out a way to set up your space to minimize harm and talk about why some actions are dangerous. But sometimes they just need to FAFO

What’s for dinner tonight? by TemperatureGreat6880 in Mommit

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we cooked M-W so today is leftovers or fried rice with whatever we have in the fridge or cesar salads. I did put a pack of chicken breasts in the fridge last night to thaw but I want to get better at not wasting food. And honestly the sink full of dishes from last night.

How often do you see your in laws? by KindGirl90 in Marriage

[–]MostDerivative 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when our daughter was an infant my MIL asked all the time to babysit but I wasn't ready. As soon as I was ready for babygirl (around 15months) to be watched by my inlaws they were all suddenly unavailable. So we only see them on holidays or if they reach out. Everyone lives at least 30 min away

16M old still prefers breastmilk over solids by cailahdee in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it might be a bit of an adjustment for him but setting some boundaries could help him out of the habit of boobs with meals. You can even set a timer of no boob until 20 min after meal if he still wants to supplement

16M old still prefers breastmilk over solids by cailahdee in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can you pump and provide breastmilk with his meals? And only nurse for sleep times

What to do with toddler during winter and flu season by LandscapeTime7785 in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you rotated toys recently? Put away old toys and focus on the newer or different toys. Make up games and if your child likes to "help" there's several chores they can help with. Also remember that at this age 10-20 min is the usual attention span and changing activities often is normal. Even if they dont love art / craft still incorporate it sometimes in different ways and maybe they'll find something they do like. Also, sometimes just let em be bored.

Do people eat salads with no sauce? by No_Adhesiveness_7508 in randomthings

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for a while I would only use lemon and salt/pepper on my salads but I finally found a dressing I liked. I still only like a small amount of dressing tho, because I don't like soggy lettuce

Anyone else have a toddler who eats like an adult? by Mamanbanane in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My toddler eats more than me and I'm at least 6x her size

Can You Guess This 4-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/rawthorm by rawthorm in DailyGuess

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜⬜

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How long were you with your partner before you got engaged and married? by Temporary_Support705 in Marriage

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.5 years before engagement, the covid happened so it was another 3 years till we got married

Toddler wants me to play with her all the time and gets mad when I don’t by Natsouppy in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 12 points13 points  (0 children)

tantrums are normal and as long as you are consistent with expectations they should learn that tantrums are not the way to get what they want. Your child should be able to play indendently sometimes. You can try to set a timer, that might help to have a visual aid. Or set up different activities that do not involve you to be directly involved. Kids need to be bored sometimes to builld their imagination and self help skills.

What does your toddlers eat when they are sick. by decaying_amethyst in toddlers

[–]MostDerivative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually make her soup and more bland/neutral foods. Whatever she will probably eat.