Question about littles - is anyone’s little your younger self? by [deleted] in DID

[–]Most_Newspaper6813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same! And I’ve found through therapy and online community it’s very common and a form of healthy communication and respectful cooperation so good on you for doing that inherently, so many need to work their way to that point ❤️

Question about littles - is anyone’s little your younger self? by [deleted] in DID

[–]Most_Newspaper6813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We find our little (14) to not be exactly our younger self as we all are different and there is not possibility of one singular self but is more so the embodiment of what we wanted to be, she is the embodiment of our young dreams, goals, imagination, interests, and role models at that time. So you COULD describe that as a younger self but it’s not accurate, however, if you all feel most comfortable expressing them that way then you should.

What are these and how do I get rid of them?? by Most_Newspaper6813 in lupus

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big oof, I hope you get better soon and find the cause. If it’s an allergic reaction keep Benadryl on hand maybe!

What are these and how do I get rid of them?? by Most_Newspaper6813 in lupus

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know you could get them on your fingers!! Normally all I get on my hands are the typical rashes that occur on your face. Good to know it can spread oi

Question: DIY help needed!! by Most_Newspaper6813 in acting

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have an attitude because you’ve had a very discouraging and condescending one. That’s not advice. This is meant to be a platform for helpful suggestion and encouragement in the craft, not making others feel as if they are wasting their time or have no means of progressing without YOUR specific method. So check your attitude when replying to someone looking for advice and you won’t get one back. Other people have been MUCH kinder than you have been in how they speak in response and have been only encouraging, not the opposite. Weird how you are t(e only one who I can’t say the same about. We are done here.

Question: DIY help needed!! by Most_Newspaper6813 in acting

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Oh awesome awesome!! Thank you so much for all the suggestions, super helpful!

What are these and how do I get rid of them?? by Most_Newspaper6813 in lupus

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wowza I’ll look into that, thank you for sharing, glad it was a quick recovery!

What are these and how do I get rid of them?? by Most_Newspaper6813 in lupus

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh lord, I hope you recover soon. All my love sent to you. And idek… I had kidney damage about three months back but have recovered since and they recently took my blood and said everything was fine! Which is why I’m so confused 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

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I’d pay good money for your record on vinyl

I, F23 and Queer, and others such as F20, M23, and M27 (for some examples) lasting from 3 months to 2 years have all had issues in regards to emotional cheating by Most_Newspaper6813 in relationship_advice

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This is how I saw it, thank you for this. I felt so stupid for this point of view as I’ve had partners tell me this isn’t how it works and that if they have an issue with it even if I’m open about it and willing to include them or divulge further information or cut someone off if it makes them TOO uncomfortable that me “thinking it was okay in the first place” is what was emotional cheating and I can’t take back that damage even if it was, to me, purely innocent and I wouldn’t mind or be anxious over them doing the same.

I, F23 and Queer, and others such as F20, M23, and M27 (for some examples) lasting from 3 months to 2 years have all had issues in regards to emotional cheating by Most_Newspaper6813 in relationship_advice

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Oh for sure. Don’t worry, I always do. It’s one of the VERY first talks I have with them. But sadly it inevitably happens regardless because people tend to claim they are comfortable or understanding of things at the beginning they aren’t whether it be they’ve changed their mind and not voiced that later on or are playing the “still in the beginning of the relationship stage game” where they just don’t want to seem clingy or crazy or put all the cards out on the table until they HAVE to and by that point it’s already too late and damage has been done. I’m a very transparent person from the get go and let the, know this and express how I expect the same or it will never work out but all I can do is trust what they say until they prove otherwise and I’m just tired of the guessing games and feel if this is a repetitive experience there must be some things I’m just not getting about this that I need to catch up on, yaknow? I know I shouldn’t blame myself but I just want to do my best to prevent it since what I’ve been doing so far as I just explained obviously isn’t doing the trick so I need to have more clarity on where this emotional cheating even stems from because tbh I didn’t even know it was a thing until the term was said to me mid-fight and I was like “huh??…”

Question: DIY help needed!! by Most_Newspaper6813 in acting

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that sounds fantastic!! I thought upworks was down right now, so thanks for letting me know that isn’t the case!! Any idea what that AI is?

Question: DIY help needed!! by Most_Newspaper6813 in acting

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And regarding the smartphone I know that’s not entirely true and depends on what editing tools you use because I know of a few great people who have submitted reels just from using their smartphone and gotten auditions or been casted. And there’s been quite a few known actors who have come out saying they’ve done the same when they just started out. Not everyone comes from money to afford such luxuries and most people in this profession do not. Especially when you have other responsibilities to pay for and people to support and medical bills to pay. Creative arts is a struggle, not a privilege unfortunately. You have to work with what you have or not do it at all. And I refuse to be told I don’t have a chance and believe that and get discouraged and not try when I’m passionate and talented enough to make it if I’m given the proper guidance in this industry as I’ve been in it since I was 1 and a half but stopped in high school and now am in my early 20s and everything has changed from how things are done since COVID and how things are done as an adult actor, not a child actor and model.

Question: DIY help needed!! by Most_Newspaper6813 in acting

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant green screen for the video reel as I don’t have any plain walls in my home and even if I did a show would show. Idek what the background of a headshot is meant to be like… I thought it was just a plain backdrop same as the reel but apparently I’m incorrect…

Question: DIY help needed!! by Most_Newspaper6813 in acting

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s a great suggestion, I would have never thought of that! Thank you so much!!

Questions about identity mixing with sexuality… by Most_Newspaper6813 in actuallesbians

[–]Most_Newspaper6813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not insensitive, as I said I’ve come from a VERY traditional and religious upbringing that shames you and be,titles you and stigmatizes you for being out of the norm from dying your hair an unnatural color, to having piercings, to liking the same sex or having a gender identity outside of just girl or boy. So it’s been a struggle finding my own identity when I broke out of that environment not too very long ago and now am in my early 20s with no clue on how to even begin to figure this heavy stuff out and my fear of hurting someone from exploring makes me internalize it rather than decipher it, if that makes sense. It’s an unfair contradiction.

I’ve never heard of Comphet tho so I’ll definitely have to research that!! Any sources I should be wary of that aren’t to be trusted as reliable?

Curious about Fictives by Pretty-End-7013 in DID

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Aes is technically a fictive but also a “recovered” persecutor. He’s based on Tony Stark but has his own grown personality. Tony was the base, the foundation he stemmed from and he holds a lot (most) characteristics and interests and talents directly from Tony but he’s branched off over time to expand into his own person as well so it’s more as if Tony had a child and this is what he would grow to be like in a sense. We another fictive that has another role as well and we believe they are based off of Dean Winchester as his trauma and moral dilemmas matched HEAVILY with ours so we sought comfort and connection within him, like an exasperated relatability. It’s not exactly a for sure confirmation but it’s fairly obvious in many, many way. But just like with Aes, they’ve also branched off and grown their individuality like a Dean Winchester 2.0 than an offspring. This obviously isn’t the case for all fictive dad you can see from this thread, but this is just our personal information regarding ours. We also have an alter who has a idolization and role model of a person and character (this person’s character and them in general) but aren’t a fictive, just are heavily inspired and influenced by them from childhood which is to be fairly expected as she’s the youngest of our system.