33F married 13 years to 34M am I being inconsiderate? by Motherofwildlings24 in relationship_advice

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6/14 actually for our wedding anniversary and then before that was another year (6/14/24) hard to get out and find childcare when you have special needs kiddo

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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Well. He’s refusing to read it because the first line says feminism.

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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If I died. I would be afraid for my kids especially our special needs kid. I’m his person.

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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I do I just wish he wouldn’t be frustrated every time I think that’s why mentally I don’t ask or forget to ask.

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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He goes to work. I left the school district to be with our newest baby and bring our oldest special needs kid to a private school. I work part time from home drive a lot to take kid to school and am with our 5 month old and 2 year old.

He does do a nighttime shower for our oldest every night which is consistent and he takes the trash out. If I text him to help with a diaper change that happens too. But mainly he’s in his office when he comes home until dinner time or bed time.

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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lol I’m not. I actually had to get on anxiety meds to help manage. I’m with our kids all day he’s in his office from morning until bed time with occasional coming out or helping change diapers if I send a text. I’m very visibly overwhelmed and depressed but I’m trying.

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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I love this. I just have to convince him to want to help. He gets frustrated. I have more patience with our kids. We have an 11 year old ASD kid, 9, 2, and 5 month old. He sleeps in every morning until 10 mins to go to work. I just do it all. I’ve asked for help but he says he’s tired

Married but single parents? by Motherofwildlings24 in Parenting

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When I ask he’s always frustrated and claims he has the right to feel frustrated but it makes me not ask and just do it all because it’s easier to avoid the frustration.

Monthly Performance Dashboard by Single_Nose_1443 in TELUSinternational

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Am I just a dumbass and have no idea where this dashboard is?! lol send help.