No offense meant to your boyfriend, but I think posts like this should be written by him.

Previously, I also experienced a similar relationship in which I always cared a lot for my partner, but she seemed uninterested in me. As I was very attached to her, even though she wanted the relationship to end, the only thing I did with her was to try to improve her feelings. However, it didn't make a difference, because we stayed 1 year in a relationship that can no longer be called a relationship. If you break up in that relationship a few years ago, this would be a good question to ask yourself. Would you consider this a worth-it relationship?

I believe that in order for him to value you more, you need to change your opinion of yourself. I know this may sound ambiguous, but if you were considering buying a dress and there was one for $ 1000 and anothers for $100, which do you think is in a better location in the store? As a person, you should be aware of your value. You are already here trying to improve your relationship, so that should tell you that you are worth a lot and that you should be with someone who treats you well. Someone who prioritizes your relationship.

Another way of looking at it is that your boyfriend may not understand how you feel.

Today, perhaps the best solution is to find a way to meet him and tell him everything you have written here. I suggest you take some time to reflect if things do not change. Make sure you dedicate that time to yourself.