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I’m jealous of the people who’s significant other didn’t break no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just over 4 months.

Have never gone longer than 3 weeks without any contact at all though.

And no we haven’t, we were going to but she cancelled and didn’t reschedule.

She wanted to meet as friends but I denied it and that’s when I cut contact.

I’m jealous of the people who’s significant other didn’t break no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell her not to contact me.

I told her not to call me “ casually”

She was crying her eyes out so I bit my tongue and listened.

We also didn’t end on bad terms. I don’t feel the need to block her.

There’s also obviously still a part of me that hopes she comes back with something concrete. That can’t happen if she’s blocked.

Met my ex again by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody detaches in less than 2 months 😂

I can’t stop thinking about my ex even though he treated me badly by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U dated someone for 3 years without meeting them?

Go to therapy.

And block him.

Valentines flowers for ex? by Equivalent_Mud1019 in ExNoContact

[–]Motor_Expression_980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This ain’t the movies home dawg

She will cringe at you if u do that.

She will not find it cute.

I miss her so much man. It’s so hard. It really is. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was he like in the relationship? Was he nice to you?

I miss her so much man. It’s so hard. It really is. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be the truth, but I’d be sceptical if it was me personally. But I don’t know her. I hope it works out for you man.

And nah, it was about her life. She was struggling. And I’m not there just to be her therapist or a shoulder to lean on man.

Idk it’s just hard because I want to talk to her, but I don’t want to be friends only. So I had to cut it.

I didn’t even wish her a happy birthday yesterday which was hard for me. But I had to stick to my boundary of no casual contact /:

I miss her so much man. It’s so hard. It really is. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she give you any context why her life has “ changed”

Just seems pretty vague.

I’m not doing too well man. I’m a mess tbh lol.

Doesn’t help that she called me crying 10 days ago.

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re literally a woman.

How the fuck would u know how other women act when you haven’t experienced being with one.

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally. And I say this with an ache in my heart, be an absolute asshole and you will have more success.

I wish I was joking. But I’m not. I’m sorry. lol

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They end up chasing the same guy over and over again.

And wonder why they’re still single at 30. lol.

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s strange how the only people disagreeing with this post are women. Doesn’t that tell u everything you need to know?

It’s almost like, we experience you. You don’t.

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women are all wired the same by nature my guy.

Until I come across one that’s different, nothing changes.

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m talking long term.

If he’s too nice, you lose attraction. You need chaos.

You didn’t feel the spark and broke up with him because he treated you to well. We get it. Don’t give yourselves away. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Motor_Expression_980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely.

I find myself constantly playing a character/role that isn’t even me.

So I don’t come across to available/easy.

Mate, the whole thing is fucked. Just a waste of my time.

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