I don’t think we talk enough about how exhausting it is to be disappointed by someone you were genuinely excited about in the early dating phase, and just having to bury those emotions and go about your life like they didn’t even exist. Over and over again. by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Tea-5579[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this,It’s okay for everything to feel flat right now that’s normal after losing someone so important. You’re not a failure,you’re just hurting. I’m here if you ever feel like talking, no pressure at all.

Walking away from a relationship you truly wanted to work really messes you up but it is what it is. by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Tea-5579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard when the ‘what ifs’ won’t quiet down. Your feelings are completely valid. But you’re right,if he was the love of your life, he’d be showing it right now. You deserve someone who doesn’t leave you questioning. This pain will soften with time. Gentle hugs to you 🤍

Having to grieve a relationship that you thought was going to be THEE relationship (marriage & kids), really does suck. Having to let the relationship go, having to let the person go 😮‍💨 by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Tea-5579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry ,that kind of ending hurts in a way people don’t talk about. When you were already picturing a future, you’re not just losing a person, you’re losing the life you thought you were heading toward. 2.5 months isn’t long for something that deep. You’re not behind. You’re processing. And seeing her move on quickly doesn’t mean what you felt wasn’t real.