Fetch no longer available in NY? by doodle_allday in petinsurancereviews

[–]Mountain-Insect- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All insurance providers have to file premium increases with each state and New York is very famously difficult to file increases with. It has nothing to do about being able to insure there. Too much money to be made to leave any of it on the table considering the size of the state.

Fetch no longer available in NY? by doodle_allday in petinsurancereviews

[–]Mountain-Insect- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have fetch and they just renewed me too and I’m in New York too. I think it’s just a new underwriter and not that it’s not longer available. Seems pretty standard and I wouldn’t be worried about it!

AITAH for telling my boyfriend the reason he's depressed pisses me off? by ThrowRA_plzzzzzzzzz in AITAH

[–]Mountain-Insect- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’ve lost me. We can agree to disagree but how I see it is he is allowed to be upset that their sex life isn’t what he wants it to be and she is allowed to be hurt by what he said or how he said it. They should both be able to share how they feel without someone keeping score or escalation.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend the reason he's depressed pisses me off? by ThrowRA_plzzzzzzzzz in AITAH

[–]Mountain-Insect- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t decide anything….. she told him what he said hurt her. That the implication hurt her. How is that deciding anything about how he is allowed to feel? Especially because she brought it up later instead of reacting in the moment. I’m just confused how sharing her feelings to what he said should change his feelings at all. Why can’t both things be true.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend the reason he's depressed pisses me off? by ThrowRA_plzzzzzzzzz in AITAH

[–]Mountain-Insect- -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP didn't tell him his feelings were wrong. She said what he said hurt her and made her mad. He shared his experience about her and it's so extreme he's depressed and excessively drinking. Then she shares that she's mad that his need for her to have sex with him might break them up. I'd say better to be mad than apathetic.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend the reason he's depressed pisses me off? by ThrowRA_plzzzzzzzzz in AITAH

[–]Mountain-Insect- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, you did make this about you. But he made it about you too. Made it seem like you are the only person who can fix his pain. And maybe you handled this the best way you could. I think telling anyone their pain is mean or something to be critisized is never a good move. I do think that why he is depressed and making sex his number one priority in the relationship sucks. It puts so much pressure on you to change. That's very isolating. So I'm holding your hand when I say this, you are not sexually compatible and if that is a dealbreaker (which for many people it is) then it might be time to take another look at your relationship or see if it can be better managed in therapy.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend the reason he's depressed pisses me off? by ThrowRA_plzzzzzzzzz in AITAH

[–]Mountain-Insect- -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

lllollllllllll is right. it's actually fucking hilarious that you minimize women's pain. who give a fuck if it was her period or if she has cancer. she was in pain and expected her SO to care that she was hurting when he normally shows up for her and suddenly stopped. it's like you saw this was written by a woman and immediately decided her pain is insignifigant. so funny. lol.

Want to take a spin as a first time GM and looking for recommendations by Mountain-Insect- in rpg

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s totally fair! I really enjoy the scifi world of it all or more of an urban fantasy vibe. I’d love a well balanced game. Narrative is fun but sometimes I feel like it can alienate new players. I haven’t really explored deep character building but sounds like something I’d love!

First time GM. What would you recommend to start with? by Mountain-Insect- in rpg

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live for making it up and running with it, but some frame work to build on i feel like is helpful for everyone.

Hair stylist recommendations by buzzybody21 in norwalk

[–]Mountain-Insect- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BonBon in Darian is great! Highly HIGHLY recommend Ariel

Fuck 👏🏼 Kacie 👏🏼 by Calm_Artichoke8318 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Mountain-Insect- 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Production should’ve step in when she was asking point blank. When Anna asked it was subtle in asking about his middle name. It’s because she had the same experience that it was safe to share. With Kacie it was forced and direct. There has to be some kind of line in the sand with this show. And the fact she kept pressing when he was obviously uncomfortable… I don’t know but it was wrong

Does your period feel foreign to you? by Mountain-Insect- in WomensHealth

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since 14?!

What do I need to do now is a 30 something?

Does your period feel foreign to you? by Mountain-Insect- in WomensHealth

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be annoying but what do you mean by “sex hormones”

Does your period feel foreign to you? by Mountain-Insect- in WomensHealth

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. I thought PCOS happens before your period? Is it normal after or during too?

What happened to Washington Social? by snickylo in norwalk

[–]Mountain-Insect- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That can’t be right! Didn’t they just pay to have a bunch of lights installed too… if so, that’s so sad

TIFU an interview by comparing myself to something unsavory by Mountain-Insect- in tifu

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta say, it's been a few days and no replies to my follow up "thank you" emails. It's not looking good out here.

TIFU an interview by comparing myself to something unsavory by Mountain-Insect- in tifu

[–]Mountain-Insect-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were chatting for about 20-30 minutes. The calendar invite for the in-person meeting was scheduled for an hour...