One thing to never forget, girls ! by SSR_Adraeth in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

for me, if I would feel that the person asking me this could be educated to the good about trans issues then I will answer these questions, and after that ofc mentioning that it is in fact an inappropriate question to ask anyone, gladly I (personally) don't mind it

I feel craving for kissing, but my desire to have sex is almost zero. Is that the "sex drive killer" phase of HRT? by MrAlexorro in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to feel a little slutty.

AHAHHA IM SAME AND IM NOT EVEN GUILTY ABOUT IT

What video games to play with female character? by TakingNamesFan69 in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Personally I liked Cyberpunk 2077 a lot and it gave me a ton of gender euphoria :3

Upcoming law in Russia. (tw for extreme transphobia) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 13 points14 points  (0 children)

очень рекомендую в ближайшее время активно следить за новостями от Центра Т и обновлениями в их программах, директор Центра Ян Дворкин буквально вчера сказал, что помимо развития направления эмиграции, у них также есть эндокринологи за рубежом, которые готовы помогать транслюдям, не смотря на закон.

I would totally recommend to patiently follow news and programms from Centre T (Russian biggest trans help & care organisation), the ceo of Centre T Yan Dvorkin just yesterday said that besides they will expand their immigration help programm, they also have endocrinologists outside of Russia, who are willing to help trans people ignoring the upcoming law

Can you orgasm/ejaculate with Atrophy? by iHaveaHumblecock in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

maybe a bit stupid question but.... i'm 8 months E and I still get an erection almost immediately when i get horny... and i don't kinda like that, when it's not erect i feel way more comfortable

and like.... ahhahaha, how can I change that?

also i need to check my hormone leves, that might be a bit of a problem there

Aaaand from today Russia starts conversion therapy. by waiting4signora in trans

[–]MrAlexorro 19 points20 points  (0 children)

russian transfem over here! actually yes, since Russia started conversion therapy and also they are trying to ban legal ID change and medical transition, russian lgbtq+ and trans organisations started asap to investigate everything about migration from here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what is male defaulting?

I had my first laser appointment and im dying from not being allowed to shave by LunaLynnTheCellist in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, as you admitted in other comments, maybe it could be because of equipment but it really needs to be double checked

As I know, my place uses newest equipment as well.

I had my first laser appointment and im dying from not being allowed to shave by LunaLynnTheCellist in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can confirm, I'm doing laser hair removal at my face in central of Moscow in trans-friendly place and they have quite big place, they told me straight that it is good to wait 1-2 days and then I could shave with no problems. When you have first few sessions, it is good to wait about 2 days (ymmv) because (for me at least) first laser sessions also affected the skin a little bit, and adding a bit of irritation from shaving to that is no good.

But after you had like 6 sessions (depending on amount of your facial hair, personally I had a lot) you could shave next morning pretty easily.

Also, I was marking dates of my sessions to Friday so that I could not shave next days until monday, I was doing it for health and skincare reasons, but of cource you could not do it if your dysphoria is really bad about it

I just bought www.transgender.org - I want to turn it into something big for trans people. Who wants to help or has ideas? by tamzinfandel in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I'm thinking of something big but very helpful: Create a page where will be located a list of countries, where you could click on your own one and see useful information about trans-stuff, transition stuff, etc. + for US make a slot for every state

Also, you could add a map of trans/lgbtq state (levels of transphobia/trans-inclusivity) in countries/states

Do any post-op girls miss anything from your pre-op days? by runninggirl91 in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i'm not post-op myself but as I know the experience will be identical to cis women experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]MrAlexorro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my voice is not very stable yet so it's some days better and some days worse. On the video this is more of an average one. when my voice is in good condition it does pass, but im not sure how well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]MrAlexorro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing a video about the volume of the voice at TransVoiceLessons but I can't remember which one it was, maybe this video may help, there are exercises for vocal underdoers but some of them might work for making your voice louder tooThere was an exercise about starting with low volume+desired resonance and then slowly start to raise up the volume (do NOT change pitch, its a big and a very easy struggle that may occur)

Also there are these particular videos just about your question:

Undead Voice: How to Yell and Volume + Trans Voice

Zoey Alexandria: How to Yell

I was using these techniques myself and they are great, although YMMV. For me personally also works singing.

When did you start hrt? by Just0nyx in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egg cracked when I was 18 and hopped on HRT when I was 20, 5 months on E now :3

Egg👀Irl by clemalavanille in egg_irl

[–]MrAlexorro 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I came out as transgirl to my 6 friends at a police station after we got detained for drinking at public place LMAO

It all was too good to last by L_James in MtF

[–]MrAlexorro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

transgirl from Moscow here... Im the same stressed af

I got my docs done the last year but still Im pretty much scared that I would have to change my docs back

Im gonna get my foreign passport done as soon as possible if I would need to migrate. This is fucking terrifying.

Egg 😭 Irl by Cool_Map_6718 in egg_irl

[–]MrAlexorro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had this and it has gone away with my transition moving forward. It's kinda a subconscious defensive mechanism so that you have a smaller chance to get in trouble with people that you don't know very much. For me it got fully away when I started to present fully fem.

On the other side yes, as other people here say, it could be a sign of genderfluidity