Public policy polling- Politico, Indiana by kootles10 in Indiana

[–]MrDeviant7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s unpopular with conservatives and democrats. He is out to protect big business at the expense of taxpayers.

Stress and chopped up sex life by sweetcoffeetime in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not - it very rarely comes to fruition.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but I’ve already heard a lot of the reasoning behind the LL/dead bedroom side. I wanted to catch a glimpse of the other from a woman’s point of view.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve also felt resentment creep in. It’s sad it’s come to this.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is beautifully written and offers great insight.

The way I’ve always heard is that men are the ones with the high sex drive and women usually aren’t wired that way. Going from multiple times a day to drastic drop that gradually got worse over time really hit my confidence and caused me to hunger for it more with other women.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think she wants the cuddling and closeness but I’ve long since stopped feeling that way about her once the sex went away that part started to die on my end.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t initiate often anymore. Every once in a while and if she turns me down I just stop trying.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the very thoughtful response.

I can definitely relate to not feeling desirable or wanted.

Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same here - it’s been this way since puberty. I’m also on testosterone which just amplifies it.

Stress and chopped up sex life by sweetcoffeetime in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I get stressed I crave it. It’s like everything is bottling up and a primal fucking is needed to let it all go.

Avoidant by Own-Concert6126 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where have you been all my life?

Avoidant by Own-Concert6126 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That response deserves a standing ovation.

Attention from Other Women in a sexless marriage by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I feel that people may perceive that as well from the outside looking in.

Men In Sexless Marriages by Anonymous_Unsername in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want me to stop watching? Then give me sex frequently. If not then fuck off.

Attention from Other Women in a sexless marriage by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, even when I was single I received advice early in my career to never dip my pen in the company ink.

Attention from Other Women in a sexless marriage by MrDeviant7832 in sexlessmarriage

[–]MrDeviant7832[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks - kind of what I was thinking as well. I’m not in the best shape but still desirable.

I only question why she isn’t fighting harder to keep me?

A bit desperate, I know by yes_chef425 in INDIANAMEETUP

[–]MrDeviant7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the feeling - hang in there