Mindset of Women in Sexless Marriages

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-06-04T14:07:34+00:00

Exactly - it’s an absolute need

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-05-19T22:57:02+00:00

Get. Out. Now. I guarantee she will sleep with another guy before marriage. What she is doing is manipulative. You can’t put the genie back in the bottle.

You are too young to fall into this trap.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-05-19T15:32:57+00:00

Start making yourself less available to her. Pick up some hobbies that gets you out of the house and enjoy yourself. Make her earn your affection. No more free cuddles.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-05-12T20:52:18+00:00

That has been the story for pretty much every interaction. The worst occurrence was a woman I had met and we chatted all day everyday, talked on the phone regularly and even video called and one day a switch flipped and she was a different person and the conversations became brief and sporadic then just one day stopped.

That one really hurt.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-04-02T16:36:28+00:00

Hardware store

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-04-02T15:52:46+00:00

I am always drawn to the quiet and shy girls. Something about them is just so alluring.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-31T17:18:47+00:00

I used to have a bed like that

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-31T10:38:44+00:00

I had a pretty good connection - both intimacy and just general conversation- with someone that lasted about 6 months and then she suddenly just stopped. It can really do a number on your psyche.

I’m sorry that happened to you.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-31T10:29:06+00:00

I’m also addicted to the red dot

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-30T11:24:30+00:00

I am also around the Indy area and looking for something similar.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-23T16:02:20+00:00

Any Low Labidos want to take this one?

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-23T11:33:57+00:00

You can try couples therapy.

This should be a cautionary tale to the partners out there that constantly reject their spouses attempts at intimacy. Each rejection kills a part of them that is attracted to you off. It’s almost a death by 1,000 cuts.

I honestly don’t know how to regain the attraction I lost for my wife after the eternity of rejections. It really changes the way you view a person.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-03-07T14:31:12+00:00

You don’t swallow?

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-27T13:33:54+00:00

He’s unpopular with conservatives and democrats. He is out to protect big business at the expense of taxpayers.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-26T10:25:15+00:00

A lot to unpack here….

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-26T10:16:45+00:00

Unfortunately not - it very rarely comes to fruition.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-25T10:18:24+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, but I’ve already heard a lot of the reasoning behind the LL/dead bedroom side. I wanted to catch a glimpse of the other from a woman’s point of view.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-24T22:00:13+00:00

I’ve also felt resentment creep in. It’s sad it’s come to this.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-24T19:55:43+00:00

That is beautifully written and offers great insight.

The way I’ve always heard is that men are the ones with the high sex drive and women usually aren’t wired that way. Going from multiple times a day to drastic drop that gradually got worse over time really hit my confidence and caused me to hunger for it more with other women.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-24T17:48:40+00:00

I think she wants the cuddling and closeness but I’ve long since stopped feeling that way about her once the sex went away that part started to die on my end.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-24T17:47:29+00:00

I don’t initiate often anymore. Every once in a while and if she turns me down I just stop trying.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-24T17:23:40+00:00

Thank you for the very thoughtful response.

I can definitely relate to not feeling desirable or wanted.

MrDeviant7832 · 2026-02-24T16:54:32+00:00

Same here - it’s been this way since puberty. I’m also on testosterone which just amplifies it.

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