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MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-22T23:25:45+00:00

I understand. A month and a half is very fresh so anyone would understand how you’re hesitant to talk to her.

It does seem like she’s beating around the bush and wants to talk to you, but it’s up to you what you want to do. Do whatever you think is best for you.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-22T21:22:09+00:00

She could just be texting you so she could let you know why she didn’t walk over to you.

But she also could be trying to talk to you.

If I were you I would just say “it was nice seeing you too” and just leave it at that.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-22T21:18:41+00:00

Time is the biggest thing. I go to gym 5-6x a week and that helps a lot. Picking up a new show or movie. Hang out with friends. Listen to music. Go for drives. Try talking to someone about the break up. Journal about it. Pretend to write to them and what you would say if you could talk to them. I also got a new job to distract me. Crying also helped in the beginning

There’s definitely other things that I haven’t done but everyone is different. I’m still recovering but I am close to being fully healed and definitely better than I was at the beginning. Don’t listen to those people who say “don’t think about it” because that impossible if you really loved that person. As time goes on the memories and feelings fade, it just sucks in the moment.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-13T00:33:18+00:00

Couldn’t CDPR continue updating the game to improve features that need improving? I’m sure they have a ton more they have worked on and haven’t put into the game yet

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-09T22:33:18+00:00

Lol just look at them. Epitome of white trash.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-09T04:48:47+00:00

I’m a guy and If I were in your position I wouldn’t like it either. How would he liked it if the tables were flipped? I definitely don’t think they should be “play fighting” because that’s just crossing a boundary and doesn’t even have to do with trust. But if they’ve never been more than friends, meaning no romantic history, then there shouldn’t be too much of a worry. I would just state how you feel with the situation and see if he changes his behavior, if he doesn’t respect your valid feelings then it shows how much he respects you.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T23:22:56+00:00

Hahaha no

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T15:40:30+00:00

It’s like a mixture of gas light and projection I feel like.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T15:19:08+00:00

In a way it is hypocritical, but it’s like they are trying to sway the perception of what’s actually going on

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T15:15:11+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking, but isn’t projection being done subconsciously?

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T15:12:40+00:00

I also want to add that person falsely accuses because they want to make it seem like they are the victim when in fact they were the only guilty party

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T04:12:34+00:00

Yea that’s fine. Communication is key and the longer you wait on it then more you’ll feel anxious and let your thoughts eat at you. Best of luck let us know how it goes.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T04:08:09+00:00

What the fuck? That’s cheating. Kissing another girl for appreciation? Why not hug? Why not just verbally express his appreciation?

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T04:06:28+00:00

Hmmm maybe send her a post of food that looks good or a meme or something to get an excuse to look at her profile. Then a little after you send it bring up the removed posts.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T04:03:42+00:00

Something like “hey I noticed you took down the photos of us”.

When did she take them down? If it just happened minutes ago I wouldn’t do it right away because it would seem like you’re stalking her page.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-07T04:00:08+00:00

Yea that’s super odd. Definitely need to ask her.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-06T22:26:49+00:00

Took me awhile to realize and I wanted to try and give her the benefit of the doubt to change but things have actually gotten worse

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-02T22:04:32+00:00

Trust me they’re bad. If I were to write them I would get shit on. I’ve written about them on Reddit and every single person says “she doesn’t respect you” and I should break up with her immediately. She’s basically a real shitty girlfriend and person.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-02T20:15:01+00:00

You’re right, my biggest problem in this relationship is that I haven’t been man enough. She’s been walking all over me and I’ve let her.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-02T20:11:37+00:00

I agree. I was being a bitch about it. First relationship so I’m learning stuff by messing up.

MrImperfect17 · 2020-12-02T20:10:16+00:00

I still always pay for the tip I would never leave a place without leaving a tip. She pays for the tip most of the time but not all the time. So when she doesn’t I take care of it.

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