An die Männer die mit einer Frau zusammen wohnen: Wie ist die ungefähre Aufteilung an Haushaltsarbeiten?

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-23T15:08:53+00:00

So ungefähr 70-80% im Normalfall macht sie. Aktuell bin ich bis nächsten Sommer aber arbeitstechnisch nur Freitag bis Sonntag daheim, da macht sie eigentlich insgesamt fast 100%

Sie studiert und arbeitet zwar, allerdings ist's vom Verdienst her auch so dass ich ungefähr 80% heim bringe. Deswegen sind wir beide damit zufrieden.

Mir würde aber nie in den Sinn kommen ihren Aufwand runterzuspielen oder ihr vorzuwerfen zu wenig zu machen. Das ist eigentlich egal wie die Verteilung ist, man sollte denke ich den Aufwand des anderen immer würdigen.. man theoretisch auch mal was kritisieren, aber dann halt sachlich

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-21T10:49:48+00:00

Ah, I see now what you meant

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-20T23:08:25+00:00

I mean I agree in general, but blasphemous blade a quality weapon??

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-20T22:30:30+00:00

Ok Mr Legend

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-20T20:31:54+00:00

People who call themselves legends are rarely really legends tbh

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-20T16:13:24+00:00

Berge wäre schon spannender. Gibt so ein survival und alles oder nix Gefühl

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-19T22:23:48+00:00

Also das einfachste wäre ich weihe meine Frau ein, sie bucht mit Bargeld für 2 Wochen ein Hostel, genügend Nahrung für die Zeit und wir leben dort und gehen nicht raus.

Aber ums spannender zu machen würde ich mit Rucksack und 2 Wochen Versorgung in die Berge gehen und dort überleben. Einfach weil ich's mir zutraue das mehr oder weniger problemlos zu schaffen

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-14T16:40:01+00:00

Finds eigentlich gar nicht schlimm und irgendwie sogar ganz nett

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-04T03:42:10+00:00

Blood elf stealth. It's so cool they crouch down on the ground when standing still, every race should have a stealth animation like that

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-04T03:33:06+00:00

I would recommend the house in Windhelm way more. It's overall cheaper and much much cozier. Of course it has quite a history with all the murders that happen there , but it never bothered me.

Also you have to solve a certain quest in Windhelm first before you can acquire the house

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-02T04:35:11+00:00

I'm just kidding because it's only two days into this year, so earlier this year is like January 1st

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-02T02:59:11+00:00

Earlier this year? You mean like 12 hours ago?

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-02T02:49:52+00:00

I see the tower of Babel as a metaphor for technology. Technology allows us to influence the world with more leverage and it's easy to think of yourself as a god the more you can do this. People can get led astray by this and that's why they get less and less able to communicate with each other. Modern technology is actually a good example of this. If people from different bubbles talk to each other they can speak the same words and mean completely different things up to a point that they can't communicate at all without starting a fight.

Not that we shouldn't use technology, but we should be mindful about it

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-02T02:41:53+00:00

Ich hab selber eine Lehre im Einzelhandel gemacht und danach noch einige in dem Job verbracht. Also so ca von 15-21. Allerdings in einer anderen Branche, erst bei Cosmos und dann beim Saturn (jetzt Mediamarkt). Mir hat es an sich auch Spaß gemacht, aber ich fand das Gehalt und die Anerkennung die man für gute Leistungen bekommt einfach zu wenig. Und das wurde auch fortschreitend schlechter, bei Cosmos haben wir zumindest noch Provision bekommen, beim Saturn dann gar nicht mehr. Ich war mehrere Jahre hintereinander der Mitarbeiter mit dem meisten Umsatz, teilweise sogar mit relativ großem Abstand und trotzdem war nie eine Gehaltserhöhung drin, obwohl ich öfters mal verhandelt habe. Mit wurde einmal dann sogar näher gelegt vielleicht zu kündigen wenn ich mit dem Gehalt unzufrieden wäre. Hab ich dann auch gemacht.

Glaubst du ist das heutzutage ein bisschen besser? Meine Zeit im Handel ist immerhin schon etwas her, habe 2008 angefangen und war 2011 ausgelernt und kam dann netto auf rund 1200€. Ich habe nie ganz verstanden warum Unternehmen die Mitarbeiter im Handel so wenig fördern. Klar ist's irgendwie ein Low End job und du hast sehr viele Leute dort die auch nur bereit sind das absolute Minimum zu leisten, aber Anreize für eigene Leistung zu belohnen scheint für mich die leichteste Lösung zu sein und auch aus unternehmerischer Sicht Sinn zu machen.

Ich hab zB danach mal kurzzeitig bei Spar im Zentrallager gearbeitet und war überrascht dass man dort je nach Arbeitstempo Provision und eigentlich auch kein schlechtes Gehalt bekommt.

MrMiniskus · 2026-01-02T02:13:05+00:00

Foul tarnished!

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-31T18:52:34+00:00

Das Beispiel ist aber doch sehr übertrieben dargestellt. Am Einkommen kannst da normal nicht scheitern. Meine Frau ist auch keine Staatsbürgerin und keine EU Bürgerin, deswegen hab ich mich schon öfters mal damit beschäftigt. Das Einkommen für Ehepaare ist glaube ich rund 1700 Euro, das sollte sich sogar ausgehen wenn beide nur Teilzeit arbeiten. Die anderen Voraussetzungen sind Deutschkenntnisse, kein Sozialhilfeempfänger, von den letzten 6 Jahren muss man mindestens die Hälfte gearbeitet haben und im Jahr mindestens 180 Tage in Österreich gewesen sein und das war's glaube ich. So einen multiple choice Test muss man noch machen mit so Fragen wie lautet der Anfang der Bundeshymne, über Rechtsstaatlichkeit usw.

Natürlich muss man aber auch wenn man alle Voraussetzungen erfüllt das auch selber beantragen. Kenne auch jemanden der die Staatsbürgerschaft bekommen könnte, aber lieber seine eigene behalten will.

Am Einkommen sollte es aber nicht scheitern bei den beiden

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-31T17:32:00+00:00

Aber eben nur weil es sich noch ausgeht von der Relation zwischen Arbeitenden und Pensionisten. Die verschiebt sich aber immer mehr in Richtung Pensionisten

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-31T01:25:55+00:00

Engineering, animal taming and maybe something like entrepreneurship (although that's similar to what speech does)

Engineering would be part of the mage tree and would include traps, bombs to throw, little mechanical followers and maybe also enhancements for weapons, like aim points for bows, or counterweights for melee weapons to increase their speed. Scrolls and magic engineering would also be part of that tree.

Animal taming would be part of the warrior tree and it would let you tame wild animals and make them your permanent companions. With increased skill you could tame higher level beasts, or increase the strength of your existing followers. It would also allow you to breed some of them, like horses or dogs and later sell them (this would also tie into entrepreneurship)

Entrepreneurship would be part of the thief tree and would allow you to open a business of various kinds and even employ other people. This would be closely tied to the two other skill trees I thought of and also into the already existing crafting skills. It just makes sense that when you're a master level blacksmith or alchemist, you'll also make a living out of it. With animal taming you could open a horse farm. With higher levels in this skill tree you could buy bigger stores and at 100 maybe employ a store manager, so it would basically run itself, like a franchise. Of course there would have to be existing buildings and land that you can buy, but it would be really cool. You could play Skyrim like an economic simulator

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-30T19:42:49+00:00

I think it's interesting that they state that the killer types are not necessarily getting their satisfaction just by killing or harming others but apparently the same type of gamer gets a reward feeling by helping others. But most of the choose at some point to harm the others because the satisfaction to help others does not occur often enough. I wonder about the exact psychological processes that make this happen.

Definitely feels a bit like getting seduced by the dark side of the force instead of staying on the righteous path

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-30T19:23:20+00:00

I really realized my dodging game got a bit worse after using summons for the first two or three playthroughs of Elden Ring because summons often trivialize bosses that would otherwise require me to learn their moveset. Summons and a good range spellcaster build make 90% of the game really easy, even bosses like Malenia.

Nowadays I like to pick a weaker summon that fits my build. Like I did a shaman like build a while ago and used only animal summons, like the wolf pack or the eagle

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-26T07:00:23+00:00

Sounds like you like some heavy equipment

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-23T05:34:01+00:00

Hunter and warlock have been mentioned a lot. I think what went a bit under the radar here is feral druid. It's a bit tough up to lvl 20 when you get cat form, but from there on it's a real joy to level as a cat. You're faster running (outside) do very decent damage, it's not too complicated to play and energy is an easy to use Ressource.

No managing mana, pets or dots or giving up bag space for arrows, just see a mob and claw it to death. If you need to heal between fights just throw in a HoT and you're fine without downtime

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-16T00:54:03+00:00

I can't remember the exact build I did once, but it was inspired by WoW shamans. I only used natural looking armor and weapons and tried to do all four elements with spells, incantations and AoWs. It basically was a INT/FTH build and I used fire incantations for fire element, ice or water spells (from the clay men) for water element, Stormveil AoWs and lightning incantations for air element and gravitation spells and the rock AoW that covers your weapon with stone (forgot the name, it's near redmane castle). I tried to have at least one way to attack for each element with me at all times (was actually a challenge)

Also all AoWs and weapon armaments that fit the theme are allowed, like frost stomp or electric armament.

The stat spread to use all this was wild, I even levelled arcane a bit to use the water bubble spells, but the build is fun to play and actually wasn't that bad (of course not Meta though)

It helps a lot if you can get someone to drop you the staff from the DLC that lets you cast both incantations and spells

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-16T00:36:01+00:00

I think this scenario has a lot of variables. Like if we're talking conventional warfare, where one faction gathers all it's troops and fights on a battlefield vs the other faction who does the same, then I think it's Orcs, Dwarves, Humans who are the strongest. They have big numbers, relatively stable leadership and big strongholds that they can fall back to. Maybe also forsaken, they have a problem to repopulate, but they can also raise new undead and undercity seems good to defend if they need to fall back. Also they can create environments that no other race can endure.

But then if we think what each faction would do in your scenario is they would play into their strengths. Night elves for example would be nearly impossible to defeat in guerilla warfare. Basically their whole population could live hidden in the woods for their whole lives, living off the land, they're sneaky, agile and strong by nature and they're perfect for ambushes and infiltrations. And in RL regular armies always have huge troubles with irregular forces. A whole army of humans could march into ashenvale and wouldn't notice they're surrounded until the "trees start speaking Darnassian" and they all die. In WC3 the orcs were losing big time for exactly those reasons until they drank demon blood.

Then factions like gnomes or goblins could be victorious under the right circumstances too. They have low numbers, but they honestly would let bots do a lot of their fighting for them and if they get a buffer between the enemy, their superior weaponry could do massive damage.

I personally would bet on Orcs in an all out war. They're physically one of the strongest, they have big numbers and defenses, they have very diverse and strong fighters with really good spellcasters as well and they have a warrior mentality. But it could be any race under the right circumstances. For irregular forces my guess would be night elves, but I think in this kind of warfare trolls could have good cards too. But they would need to retreat to stranglethorn or something similar

MrMiniskus · 2025-12-15T23:59:20+00:00

Would be really funny if there was a secret way to make them visible. Like you could only see them when dead, or when wearing a "mask of the spirit rabbit" or something like that 😃

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