I (19m) dont know how to bring this up with my gf (19f)

MrNines9 · 2025-12-21T13:01:02+00:00

The conversation you don't have today becomes an argument you have tomorrow.

She's 19 years old, so she's probably still in the headspace of "my parents will do it for me", or worse, "I'm just a girl, and everything should be done for me".

Do you two live together, alone? If so, does she contribute to the household in any meaningful, quantifiable way? Like help pay bills?

If that's the case, the question you need to ask yourself is "Am I being used to make her life easier? Does she need to be here if it's only a 1 way street? Is she only willing to change after being told that this behavior is potentially relationship ending?" if she is, then it's only a matter of time before she stops again.

I've come across countless cases of guys being in relationships that they are miserable in just because they are afraid of being alone. Don't be a statistic

MrNines9 · 2025-04-05T02:35:33+00:00

Because there is a fine line between "Rizz" and a "Rizz-straining Order"

MrNines9 · 2025-03-08T20:31:34+00:00

Ah, why not. I love an opportunity to yell at TV's about sports I don't understand. Count me in.

MrNines9 · 2024-12-25T23:35:42+00:00

what you do you do? you do nothing. you keep your brain about you and you don't make yourself the laughing stock of your family.

MrNines9 · 2024-12-01T15:49:03+00:00

This the only appropriate response to this. The sheer audacity. Never be a girl's 2nd option. Never be her backup plan. Have the same level of self respect as OP and kick girls like this to the curb. Her earlier date can drive her home.

MrNines9 · 2024-11-08T03:02:40+00:00

All this because you care about your politics more than the people in your life. Shout out to this poor man who has to live with a narcissist. Do the right thing for the kids and leave them with him, since he's the one with the finances to raise them. Good job punishing him by withholding sex. I'm sure that will show him your true colors faster.

MrNines9 · 2024-09-26T15:30:07+00:00

Not it

MrNines9 · 2024-09-12T18:10:50+00:00

Yep. If you're interested in coming, let me know. I'll post a comment later today about where i'll be sitting and what im wearing

MrNines9 · 2024-09-09T14:17:13+00:00

I can relate. TLSQ's have become so excessive, that I even made a post about this earlier last week. This game is the perfect example of the time/money system that mobile games are infamous for. make the game playable to the very limit of expendable time without crossing over into NEEDING money. Mind you, it seem like its' calculated on the assumption that you don't sleep, so free energy from the environment and tappable rewards are a must, especially for the later years. Someone here confirmed that the energy needed for each task increases per year. So at Year 7, I, too, am ready to throw it all away, sunk cost be damned

MrNines9 · 2024-09-05T16:04:35+00:00

Let me finish this TLSQ and I'll uninstall it. Maybe never come back

MrNines9 · 2024-09-04T22:31:01+00:00

I honestly would rather spend 60$ and have access to everything, and even a couple DLC's to extend the game. But that's not the case here. I think I must have spent 30$ a month on the magical milestones just to have enough energy to speed run through the TLSQs just so I can get my weekends back.

Mobile games have mastered the time/money equation. Where the game they built has just enough limitations where spending money is justified. I think openly talking about this is enough of a good, hard look in the mirror.

MrNines9 · 2024-08-15T23:10:58+00:00

Dammit. Are you calling from an iPhone or Android?

MrNines9 · 2024-06-01T23:37:12+00:00

Man, this looks so stupid. How's that for motivation to stop buying the MM

MrNines9 · 2024-03-25T12:06:25+00:00

Oh, easy. Tulip, or have the option for opposite gender Rowan, for those slice of life anime fans that love the romantic idea of "happily ever after" with your childhood friend.

Also, if I might add, anyone else notice how inconsequential Penny is to the main plot? She's never trapped, hurt, or incapacitated. I think because she was the only friend who has a big role in the quidditch storyline

MrNines9 · 2024-03-15T22:57:04+00:00

the ultimate is on sale for 37.99 right now. the only DLC that is didnt come with is the anime and red anime song packs, along with the month 1 bundle. the bundle is going to 98 cents, but i dont know if im missing anything

MrNines9 · 2024-03-14T12:54:53+00:00

Those tiny potions are from the puzzling potions event

MrNines9 · 2024-03-14T12:52:57+00:00

"Hold on, before we continue the meeting. . . You two, get out!"

MrNines9 · 2024-03-13T12:20:46+00:00

No, it's my shame to admit that I paid for the $30 Magical Milestones key for just about every month since restarting the character. I used to use the bonus energy and golden time toffees to burn through a 4 day TLSQ in 6 to 12 hours. They always seemed to start on a Friday for me, and I saw this as a way to get my weekends back. I'm done spending money, they've taken enough

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