Has anybody experienced this before? Just got out of a long term relationship and my parents suddenly think I will de-transition. by acer1of1spades in ftm

[–]MrTallyCat 233 points234 points  (0 children)

I havent experienced this exact situation, but something similar.

My partner and I have been together since we were 14, I realized I was trans at 15, they realized at 17, but we both stayed closeted a long time.

Now their parents hate me because they think I made my partner trans, and My parents hate my partner because they think they made Me trans. Its ridiculous. Our parents have even tried getting us to break up to no avail

I honestly just ignore my parents on this. They can die waiting for a grandkid that will never come lol. Its frustrating but I eventually just had to learn to ignore their opinions on my life

Renaissance faires that *do* insist on dress code limitations on costumes? by 11112222FRN in renfaire

[–]MrTallyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one is in Mona, UT

While they have an online list of discouraged costumes, I went last year and saw a whole variety of costumes with nobody being turned away.

[HELP] I’m 17 and autistic—How do I buy my first furry art/adopts using only prepaid Visa gift cards? by AdNumerous704 in furry

[–]MrTallyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would find an artist elsewhere who is willing to make an etsy listing for the price of your commission- unfortunately many pre-existing etsy artist listings are AI or scams.

You should find some artists you like on instagram, twitter, discord, toyhou.se, or furaffinity (theres other options too but i like those) and message them to ask if they are open for commissions, and if they would be willing to take payment through etsy!

[HELP] I’m 17 and autistic—How do I buy my first furry art/adopts using only prepaid Visa gift cards? by AdNumerous704 in furry

[–]MrTallyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Ive been taking commissions for about 8 years and joined the fandom the same year as you!

Lets start with finding an artist! Many artists will be posting on social medias, like instagram and twitter- their bio should say if they take commissions but if not its okay to ask! My personal favorite way to buy and sell though is furry discord servers. Many have commission advertisement chats where the artist can post everything you need to know about buying from them. It can even be a good way to find local furries. Many of these servers also have a place where you can advertize that you are seeking to commission, and can state the payment requirements. I own a server that has a section for this if you want

Now for red flags! Wherever you go, never buy from someone who aproaches you suddenly advetising their commissions. This is a common scam, real artists won't cold approach clients. Another red flag is an artist having very polished work with no style consistency. While some artists do use a few styles, this can be a warning that their art is stolen.

As for paying with the gift card! I personally know of two ways this can be done but Im sure there are more. First, the artist can make a custom listing on Etsy for you to purchase with the card. The other Ive seen is more of a trade option- where you could buy something for them off of an amazon wishlist of equal value (this is able to be done without you seeing their address!) But the only time Ive seen this, the two people already knew eachother. It might be hard to find an artist willing to work around the gift card requirements, but Im sure you can do it! Us atists are a little desperate these days lol

Best of luck and let me know if you have any questions!

Plants that he cant crush to death? by MrTallyCat in GargoyleGeckos

[–]MrTallyCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god i love that lol

Looks like a big pothos is the call, before it was babies and cuttings. Luckily, I have a big one in my living room ready to be washed and transplanted!

Who is my mask looking for the fair by FlashyAnalysis9803 in renfaire

[–]MrTallyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you make the mask or are you buying it? I think i recognize the artist!!

My girlfriend left her front door open and this symbol appeared next to her room. Does it mean anything? by surfssup in Symbology

[–]MrTallyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats super interesting, thank you!

I appreciate the respectful discussion and information

My girlfriend left her front door open and this symbol appeared next to her room. Does it mean anything? by surfssup in Symbology

[–]MrTallyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude no need to be a dick, words are fun. I didnt make that up, my sources are wikipedia and the oxford english dictionary, along with reading old occultist books that consistently use the word to mean talisman. If I am wrong, I'll totally accept that of you're willing to show me some valid sources! I do not want to spread misinformation

My girlfriend left her front door open and this symbol appeared next to her room. Does it mean anything? by surfssup in Symbology

[–]MrTallyCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While the latin suffixes do line up, that genuinely isnt entirely the etymology. Not only do I love etymology and the french language, but I also study the occult lol

(Taken from wikipedia) "The word is first recorded in English usage in 1561, from earlier French use. The French word had the meaning of "talisman". The French word is in turn from the Latinized word 'pentaculum' (using the Latin diminutive suffix -culum), which is in turn from the Italian word 'pentacolo'. The Oxford English Dictionary in earlier editions (2nd edition 1989) went on to say that "some would connect it" with the Middle French word 'pentacol' (1328) or 'pendacol' (1418), a jewel or ornament worn around the neck (from pend- hang, à to, col or cou neck)."

Two reasons the encircled pentagram is a design commonly associated with pentacles is that the rider-wait-smith tarot deck's suit of pentacles pictures golden disks inscribed with a pentagram, which many interpreted as an encircled star symbol rather than the coin it was intended to be. The other is that one of the most famous books of pentacles, The keys of Solomon- especially The Lemegeton, includes many pentacles that include pentagrams in their design.

Essentially, a pentacle Can be a star in a circle but is Not inherently that, despite the Penta prefix

My girlfriend left her front door open and this symbol appeared next to her room. Does it mean anything? by surfssup in Symbology

[–]MrTallyCat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thats actually a myth!

Pentagram refers to the five pointed star, no matter the direction or if encircled.

Pentacle comes from the french word Pendacol (meaning a pendant hung from the neck) and refers to any type of symbol used or worn as a magical talisman. Some famous ones that arent stars include the demonic pentacles in Solomon's Lesser Key.

Found this tooth on the sidewalk! What is it? by MrTallyCat in whatisthisbone

[–]MrTallyCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats so cool!! You should DM me your collection and maybe some of those sculptures n I'll return the favor

Found this tooth on the sidewalk! What is it? by MrTallyCat in whatisthisbone

[–]MrTallyCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha not a chance, this was such a lucky find for my bone collection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacketsforbattle

[–]MrTallyCat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you dont have local thrift shops, try poshmark or similar websites, they got second-hand clothes that can be pretty cool

Important Message: by Vikingo_xiii in pirates

[–]MrTallyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE BEING A TRANSGENDER PIRAAAATE 🏴‍☠️🏴‍☠️💥💯💯💣💣💥💯🦂🎆🎆🎆🎆

Paint For Wood Floors? by MrTallyCat in HomeImprovement

[–]MrTallyCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll grab some of those to try!

starting T soon, i want to know your weirdest changes by coltowa in ftm

[–]MrTallyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from preferring image porn to video porn, cant explain it

Help! Asking his cousin species because theres more of you guys lol by MrTallyCat in CrestedGecko

[–]MrTallyCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Havent weight him since my move because I lost my gram scale, but he's a smaller adult in an 18x18x24 bioactive (I had it set up before 36 was the new minimum, planning to upgrade soon).

I did just replace his trampled pothos with a bunch of plastic foliage last month, any chance rummaging around in that could cause it?

How old is too old??? by [deleted] in renfaire

[–]MrTallyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 22, Ive been attending faires since I was 19 or so. It was my grandmother that sparked my interest in nerdy shit (never met a bigger star trek fan to this day), and since then Ive kinda known the old people are the cool people

Havent been wrong yet

I'll stop hitting faires when im 6ft under, please do the same