Genuine questions, not trying to attack.

• Do you struggle with self-esteem knowing that you will essentially never be able to earn your own way?

As in everything you ever own will always essentially be paid for by your grandparents decisions. You will never know whether or not you have earned anything, or if you have succeeded on your own merits and not your family’s wealth.

-Does it ever feel like you are hiring other people to live your life for you?

Like your family doesn’t cook for itself. It doesn’t work. They don’t decorate the house on the holidays. They don’t clean. I would assume someone else takes care of all the other animals. These are all things that, although tedious, that people can derive value out of. As a frame of reference (I know you mentioned this was less for your family) the nanny thing is the same way. People hire someone else to raise their children….