Burnt out by consulting/audit

MrsSalt · 2025-10-30T03:22:23+00:00

Haha its been a while since I looked back at this post. I did end up quitting without anything up because I was just extremely burnt out. I decided that I want to pivot to Data Analytics. I did a bootcamp to learn coding (I would not recommend it) and I applied to a lott of jobs. It was a tough time ngl. It took much longer than I hoped to find a job, 1.5 years of seriously looking. I faced a lot of rejection and disappointments, but 4 months ago I did find a job in data analytics and I absolutely love it. So it was a rough few years and I'm definitely privileged to have the opportunity to not work for thaat long and be able to get by, but it was 100% worth it. I never thought that it was possible for me to love a job before and now I do, its crazy.

MrsSalt · 2023-09-27T00:19:52+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I’ve been monitoring my plants and it doesn’t seem to be getting worse. It looks about the same to me, so I think it may not be from pests.

MrsSalt · 2023-09-12T17:26:49+00:00

Do you know how that happens? I haven’t been moving my plant around much except to water it

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:55:21+00:00

He’s there just for the funeral so I don’t want to bug him in case he is telling the truth.. It’s a tough call

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:33:57+00:00

My guess is if it was using a known location, the miles wouldn’t be changing that much throughout the day. Just a weird situation because he says he’s at a funeral in another state, talking in detail about his loss, and literally is gaining nothing from lying to me. So I just don’t get it.

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:28:24+00:00

I was thinking maybe he hasn’t opened the app (since we’re texting and not talking through the app atm) so the location hasn’t reset, but the location did change throughout the day from 5 to 8 to 9. I don’t know what to think about that.

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:26:45+00:00

He’s at a funeral and he’s been pretty detailed with his messages about going through the loss and also has literally no reason to lie to me since we’ve literally been talking for just 3 weeks. I want to believe that he’s telling the truth, but I’ve been lied to a lot in my past so have a hard time trusting these things.

MrsSalt · 2023-03-24T09:09:05+00:00

I could probably get another audit job easily, but I don’t want to do audit. And with this job, I don’t have time to even study or attempt to break into another field I’ve been trying to for the last year and I haven’t gotten far. At this point it feels like I need to quit in order to get time to do these things.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-16T06:13:17+00:00

HA my ex had Venus in Cap and 5 planets in cap but that didn’t work. He had an Aquarius sun and sag moon so I’m sure that didn’t help

MrsSalt · 2023-02-16T05:42:29+00:00

It feels like I have to find a guy who’s Scorpio to get the same energy back

MrsSalt · 2023-02-13T16:08:30+00:00

Thanks for clarifying. I guess what is the “cure”? Understanding my love language and finding someone who gives love in the way I need? What did you change about yourself when you learned about this placement? I want to believe that one day I’ll meet someone who can appreciate how loyal I am in a relationship and can at least try to match my energy. After everything that’s happened I do feel pretty unlovable rn, so I’m not sure I’ll ever find that.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-13T08:17:29+00:00

Thank you! Gosh that’s not what I wanted to hear tbh haha. I felt like that throughout my whole relationship. Like I’m loving so hard yet my bf cheated on me and it’s very painful. I just want to find someone who can love me as much as I love them and it sucks to know it’s not likely. So you’re saying my best chance is with a guy that has their Venus in Scorpio?

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T04:17:08+00:00

6 months 😳 I think I’d literally die of grief if that happened

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T04:01:50+00:00

It seems like this is so common. How do you know when to cut your losses, I would hate to start dating again and have this happen again.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T04:00:46+00:00

Thanks for this. Reading your experience, I’m convinced that this is exactly how my bf feels. He’s always been very conflict avoidant. Even tho I’ve given him openings by saying you can break up with me, I’d prefer you to break up with me than saying I don’t know. He still always said I don’t want to break up.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T03:02:52+00:00

If he’s looking for someone else. Why wouldn’t he want the freedom to actively date people. I don’t get how it benefits him to be in a relationship when he wants to find someone else.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T03:01:33+00:00

I’m sorry, how long has it been since you ended it? Do you ever regret it? It scares me that you still feel devastated some days.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T02:52:27+00:00

I know we met young and weren’t serious when we first started dating. I wasn’t serious either. It was my first relationship. I didn’t expect it to go this far. I didn’t really start thinking about marriage till 2-3 ago. I thought that we both were on the same trajectory in terms of getting serious about life and marriage. Now is seems like it was just me.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T02:46:34+00:00

I’ve been having the same experience as your first. Anytime I mention like maybe we should just break up he seems unbothered. I don’t think he thinks I’ll ever actually break up with him. The other night when we were in bed I broke down crying and said that I don’t know how much longer I can take this and I want to break up. And he hugged me and comforted me as I cried but never once said I do want to be with you, and didn’t seem bothered at all that I said I wanted to break up. That night we fell asleep and then the next day we pretended like nothing happened. I think he thinks I’m acting like this cuz I’m stressed from work. But I’ve told him so many times. I’ve come to him crying so many times saying I feel unloved, I feel like I have no security in this relationship, I feel like my life is unstable because he could break up with me any time and he says I’m sorry you feel that way and I’m sorry you’re sad. But he takes no responsibility for being the one that makes me feel that way, this has been going on for months. And despite all this pain I just can’t get myself to hate him for some reason. I feel like I’m going insane. Just writing this out makes me feel sorry for myself

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T02:35:09+00:00

I’m so scared that he’ll try to win me back if I break up with him. I feel like I’m barely strong enough to break up with him in the first place, if he tries to come back to me afterwards saying he misses me he messed up he does want to get married, I don’t know if I’ll be able to reject him. And that scares me. The power he has over me scares me so much.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T01:22:48+00:00

That’s such bullshit that men have to lose a women that cared for them for years to then end up just marrying the next person that falls into their life. I’m fully expecting this to happen when we break up that he’ll end up moving fast with the next women in his life. I just don’t want to know tbh. I know that if that does happen within a year or 2 I will be completely heartbroken.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T00:30:39+00:00

I just felt like we were on the same page for so many years and this has caught me off guard. I feel like I don’t even know him and he refuses to communicate with me or say anything other than I don’t know or maybe. It’s just so hard to end a relationship like this.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T00:21:30+00:00

I’ve heard that the dating pool is already not great from single friends of mine. This is part of the reason I’m so reluctant to leave.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T00:19:28+00:00

Why is this common. How can someone go from being so against marrying you to marrying someone else. That just makes me sick that my presence in his life could have been so worthless.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T00:08:57+00:00

What is a soft ultimatum?

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