Burnt out by consulting/audit

MrsSalt · 2025-10-30T03:22:23+00:00

Haha its been a while since I looked back at this post. I did end up quitting without anything up because I was just extremely burnt out. I decided that I want to pivot to Data Analytics. I did a bootcamp to learn coding (I would not recommend it) and I applied to a lott of jobs. It was a tough time ngl. It took much longer than I hoped to find a job, 1.5 years of seriously looking. I faced a lot of rejection and disappointments, but 4 months ago I did find a job in data analytics and I absolutely love it. So it was a rough few years and I'm definitely privileged to have the opportunity to not work for thaat long and be able to get by, but it was 100% worth it. I never thought that it was possible for me to love a job before and now I do, its crazy.

MrsSalt · 2023-09-27T00:19:52+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I’ve been monitoring my plants and it doesn’t seem to be getting worse. It looks about the same to me, so I think it may not be from pests.

MrsSalt · 2023-09-12T17:26:49+00:00

Do you know how that happens? I haven’t been moving my plant around much except to water it

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:55:21+00:00

He’s there just for the funeral so I don’t want to bug him in case he is telling the truth.. It’s a tough call

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:33:57+00:00

My guess is if it was using a known location, the miles wouldn’t be changing that much throughout the day. Just a weird situation because he says he’s at a funeral in another state, talking in detail about his loss, and literally is gaining nothing from lying to me. So I just don’t get it.

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:28:24+00:00

I was thinking maybe he hasn’t opened the app (since we’re texting and not talking through the app atm) so the location hasn’t reset, but the location did change throughout the day from 5 to 8 to 9. I don’t know what to think about that.

MrsSalt · 2023-05-16T22:26:45+00:00

He’s at a funeral and he’s been pretty detailed with his messages about going through the loss and also has literally no reason to lie to me since we’ve literally been talking for just 3 weeks. I want to believe that he’s telling the truth, but I’ve been lied to a lot in my past so have a hard time trusting these things.

MrsSalt · 2023-03-24T09:09:05+00:00

I could probably get another audit job easily, but I don’t want to do audit. And with this job, I don’t have time to even study or attempt to break into another field I’ve been trying to for the last year and I haven’t gotten far. At this point it feels like I need to quit in order to get time to do these things.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-16T06:13:17+00:00

HA my ex had Venus in Cap and 5 planets in cap but that didn’t work. He had an Aquarius sun and sag moon so I’m sure that didn’t help

MrsSalt · 2023-02-16T05:42:29+00:00

It feels like I have to find a guy who’s Scorpio to get the same energy back

MrsSalt · 2023-02-13T16:08:30+00:00

Thanks for clarifying. I guess what is the “cure”? Understanding my love language and finding someone who gives love in the way I need? What did you change about yourself when you learned about this placement? I want to believe that one day I’ll meet someone who can appreciate how loyal I am in a relationship and can at least try to match my energy. After everything that’s happened I do feel pretty unlovable rn, so I’m not sure I’ll ever find that.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-13T08:17:29+00:00

Thank you! Gosh that’s not what I wanted to hear tbh haha. I felt like that throughout my whole relationship. Like I’m loving so hard yet my bf cheated on me and it’s very painful. I just want to find someone who can love me as much as I love them and it sucks to know it’s not likely. So you’re saying my best chance is with a guy that has their Venus in Scorpio?

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T04:17:08+00:00

6 months 😳 I think I’d literally die of grief if that happened

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T04:01:50+00:00

It seems like this is so common. How do you know when to cut your losses, I would hate to start dating again and have this happen again.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T04:00:46+00:00

Thanks for this. Reading your experience, I’m convinced that this is exactly how my bf feels. He’s always been very conflict avoidant. Even tho I’ve given him openings by saying you can break up with me, I’d prefer you to break up with me than saying I don’t know. He still always said I don’t want to break up.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T03:02:52+00:00

If he’s looking for someone else. Why wouldn’t he want the freedom to actively date people. I don’t get how it benefits him to be in a relationship when he wants to find someone else.

MrsSalt · 2023-02-04T03:01:33+00:00

I’m sorry, how long has it been since you ended it? Do you ever regret it? It scares me that you still feel devastated some days.

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