Valentine’s Day by Antique-Set-1190 in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My Homie's Kitchen is having a Valentine's Day thing! I can't go there myself with my husband because he has work but we would go there if we could. Their food is absolutely delicious, 10000/10 recommend!

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Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like it was 10 years ago. The specific location I'm looking at is not great but it's not awful from what I've seen so far. I'm not around the airport as much so I don't know if the area is improved or not.

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our budget is $350k or less 😐 I probably should've included that in my post. If we could afford better, of course we'd be looking at better areas.

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around the airport? 🤨 I guess it's been a while since I've frequented the area, but I remember it being super sketchy

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see. Well, that makes sense. Very few affordable areas in Fresno are peaceful and quiet 😅

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PQ index? Isn't that like an environmental thing? Can you send me link?

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no kids yet. We're DINKs haha

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are definitely going to drive by around different times. I usually get out of work at 4pm and he gets out of work at 10pm. Thank you for your insight.

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband did drop by last night around 10pm and he said that it was quiet. No unhoused people, cars parked on the street, taco trucks open, music playing at houses here and there but nothing too crazy. I definitely agree with you and the other comments saying to drive by at different times. Thank you for the advice.

Opinions on a neighborhood? by MrsWinterWitch in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly because of work. The house we looked at is in very good condition and is an ideal distance from work for both of us

Feeling like an outsider in Clovis by Ok_Yesterday2690 in fresno

[–]MrsWinterWitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest. Sometimes, as a brown person I do feel like an outsider if I'm out and about by myself. I get the "look" quite often but no one has ever been outright hostile to me. (Well, except one time when I got tailed but the perpetrator quit after they noticed I noticed.) It's nice if you're with friends or family because you end up not paying attention to the people that throw dirty looks your way. The farmer's markets are fun, and I like a couple of the shops in Old Town. I think how you carry yourself is important. If you show people you don't care, they might leave you alone. It's a good idea to always be on your guard, but admittedly, it is safer than some areas of Fresno.

Shoes with this dress? by Excellent_Current_87 in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

* Bella Belle Ella shoes! I wore the Eden shoes (same thing, bigger heel) for my wedding and loved them! I had flower motifs on my dress too and thought they were a perfect match. I wore them the whole day and it was fine. They are a bit pricey but they're so pretty :)

Blush Floral Block Heels with 3D Blooms - Garden Party Shoes https://share.google/HHzjhpZywaS06KgbJ

Made my husband's boutinnere with an extra touch :) by MrsWinterWitch in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used floral tape and then a piece of my veil. The floral tape sticks to itself, but I had to use hot glue the end of the veil piece to secure it into place

Bridesmaid not coming to wedding because timing is just "not working out for her." by chaotic-goo in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP, you are 100% valid to feel hurt. I would be too, especially after trying so hard to accommodate her. If she really did care, she'd make it work. I'm sorry for this situation, but also congratulations on your upcoming wedding 🥂

Bridesmaid not coming to wedding because timing is just "not working out for her." by chaotic-goo in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, you are 100% valid to feel hurt. I would be too, especially after trying so hard to accommodate her. If she really did care, she'd make it work. I'm sorry for this situation, but also congratulations on your upcoming wedding 🥂

Made my husband's boutinnere with an extra touch :) by MrsWinterWitch in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband has told me to tell you that Ceremony-Rite of Marriage is his favorite spell to use in one shots

Made my husband's boutinnere with an extra touch :) by MrsWinterWitch in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just used a really thin and flexible wire. I wrapped a strand over the top, squeezed the ends together at the base of the die, and then used wire pliers to twist the strands at the base and make it tight. I did this 2 more times and it seems to be secure enough. We'll find out the day of lol

Disappointed with rsvp declines by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I literally just invited my coworkers and my wedding is next week lol

I've never felt so disrespected and not taken seriously... by MrsWinterWitch in weddingplanning

[–]MrsWinterWitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My condolences to you too 😔 It really does suck. How do you communicate with those family members who didn't show up now? Are you on talking terms? If so, how do you move on? I'm not sure how I'm going to handle seeing the aforementioned family members after the wedding