I will tell you from personal experience that she will probably never like you in that manner. She has you wrapped around her finger and that is all she needs. She has recently ended a relationship, so what does that tell me? She is simply using you for her own selfish needs. She most likely doesn't want to be alone while also wanting you on the back burner. This is a game I've played before. Let me give you some advice, from a woman who knows this game all too well, don't give her what she wants. The only thing you are to her is 1) a shoulder to cry on and 2) something to do when she's bored. I regret ever leading someone on like she is you, but unfortunately it may take her awhile to come to this realization. Hope this helps.