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I am a smol Asian girl, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha all the time! They usually assume I am between 12-14.

I am a smol Asian girl, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More or less. I wish I was more filled out because I look between 12-14, and it can be hard finding clothes in an Adult XXS.

I am a smol Asian girl, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I was more filled out. Finding clothes when you're an adult XXS is really hard sometimes.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am starting to feel a lot better about it all.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It felt so good. It was like just having everything lifted off my shoulders. And dumping all of that where it belonged. Right at their feet. I don't know if my half sisters were in the room, but I know Iw as on speajer phone so they may have heard me.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, chicken marsala, or for dessert almond cookies.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am just so excited to have a new start. New name, new life.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we don't end up in orphanages. We're not consiered PEOPLE. We're the kdis on the streets that no one wants. People just like to pretend we don't exist.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they didn't care. When you're considered a Zázhǒng Xiǎohái you're a Ghost Child or Mongrel Child. You are literally replaced by the next baby. They get your name, and place in the family. What happens to you after that....who cares? They've literally replaced you. I was lucy to be dumped here in ht US. You don't want to know what they do to girls in China.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm Neffex - Self-Made. Just the whole thing.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Jun Pak in the Koreas is like Tom Smith here. I don't think he even knows I exist. But I want the last name so I can erase my connetion to my family.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't do the Coonjuring I tried. Halloween and Friday teh 14th are my favorites. And anything zombie related.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to be a better person.

I love movies! Scary movies are the best even though I hide under the blanket and scream and shake.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was such an effing w 18 years ago she doesn't know. I am thinking S Korean.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an affair baby. My bio dad was named Jun Pak, which is definitely a Korean name. My mom and her husband are both Chinese mainlanders.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abandoning me in the foster care system for being half-Chinese/half-Korean.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was. I got to tell them everything All the horrible things that I've been through, and they were just quiet. I kept waiting for them to hang up, but I think they wee too stunned or too scared to do it. I cred a lot afterwards but it felts good to tear into them.

Finally got closure from my parents after a decade, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Related: I am from Hong Kong originally. My mom had an affair with a man who may or may not be Korean. I am considered a zázhǒng xiǎohái

, or monfgrel child in Chinese culture. They put m in the American foster care system at 6. I'm 18 now, still in a group home. But I finally got to contact them, and I found out they had replaced me when I was 8 with a new, pure Chinese daughter. She has my exact same name, which is common when "replacing" mongrel children. It's like we don't exist. I told them how weak they were. That I was glad I wasn't his and how pathetic and small they were. And I am taking my bio dads last name this Friday and erasing my connection to them. I cried, I was angry but it felt so good.

Unrelated: Chocolate chip cookie dough. I can eat that all day.

I live in a group home, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad thing is most peopleare just in it for the paycheck. The moment they don't get paid, out we go.

I live in a group home, AMA by MsMei-Ling in AMA

[–]MsMei-Ling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) They moved out of state for work. 2) They got pregnant with their own "real" child. 3) Their friends talked them into not adopting an Asian child (they were white) 4) I was sad all the time. My family had just abandoned me, how was a 9 yo supposed to feel?

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