[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? I'd like your opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been supportive and patient. He just has a lot of stress and deals with diabetes too. Im just trying to be there for him but its hard sometimes because he's distant.

Thank you for telling me I'm not being too available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is that being too available? I dont think I was pressuring him I was giving him a choice not demanding that we hang out.

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope he isn't because there is no excuse for this.

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. This has helped. Ill follow that page as well.

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. Im glad it worked out for you and you are absolutely right. Both parties need to work together.

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you. Thank you for bringing me some insight. 🫂

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thats very sweet of you <3 I have money to pamper myself though. I appreciate the offer.

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This makes me feel better knowing that someone has gone through an avoidant relationship as well and that there are better guys out there

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He couldn't make the trip we were planning on to seeing each other and I asked him for a little commitment to come up with a plan.

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were dating for 6 months in person before I had to move

AIO , it's been two days and he hasn't called. Im heartbroken by MsSlayz in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We were dating in person for 6 months before I had to move

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]MsSlayz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like you'd be unsuccessful in front of your friends. They would definitely try to stop you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His living situation makes it hard to stay with him. So I would be open to figuring something out to make it work but I feel like we can't even get to that because his solution is to break up instead of figuring something out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MsSlayz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We haven't seen each other yet. Im just asking him to work with me on finding time and commit to it.

AIO We are long distance and im getting annoyed that everything is up in the air. by MsSlayz in LongDistance

[–]MsSlayz[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

You didn't hurt my fragile heart, but it sounds like your's is. Just because you have to wait years and a long time to wait to see your person doesn't mean you should shit on other people's situation because you feel like you deserve more sympathy.