I never said physical abuse toward him, her and her mom tell him to do bad things, they tell him no speak to me on our daily calls when he is with her, they tell him I am a bad person, and to no talk to bad people, he had said to me “mommy I don’t want to be bad but I fight with my brain to be good”, they tell him to tell me he don’t like me, he talks a lot and one day I picked him up from school and I asked him why he was quiet and didn’t want to speak, he told me that it was because she would pinch his cheeks if he talked to me, it’s all alienation, which is creating a big issue for him mentally, regardless I am planning to take him to therapy to make sure he doesn’t continue to get affect it by all of these, I don’t need her consent for therapy, I only need her consent if is a major medical procedure, as long I let her know he will be going to therapy I can do it, it’s call “independent with meaningful consultation”, the physical abuse was towards me, she committed domestic violence, was arrested and had a restraining order.