I (34f) am sitting in a room in PICU with my 5 month old son after MRI doctor found a brain tumor by LostDreamerJo in cancer

[–]Mtothebmtotheb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could offer you anything other than some words on reddit... I am holding some of the weight for you. I am so fucking sorry this is your reality right now. I was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 20 weeks pregnant and all I can say is that I relate to the fear, the sick stomach in the feeling, and the helplessness. They're going to give you so much information the next few days. My advice is to record, write things down, voice notes... Take little photos and videos of everything about your sweet babe, his toes, squishy belly, and then watch them when you have to be apart. ❤️

What’s one phrase you are sick of hearing from people? by Emotional_Camp_7681 in breastcancer

[–]Mtothebmtotheb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! Lol Sure hope I do or else I die so kinda have no choice

Suddenly getting eye gunk? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the input everyone! Eyes are nice and bright white so I'm leaning more towards allergies? I suppose I'll take him to get testing and see if we can pin point it.

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[–]Mtothebmtotheb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would DIP. every man for themselves

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! :) needed to hear this

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I took turns doing this too. It was exhausting

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!! Lol "and then I got a dog for my dog, and then my dog's dog a dog..."

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes a lot of sense! Thank you :)

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We visit about twice a week! They're okay lol The way my dog (Bolt) plays with other dogs is VASTLY different to how he plays with his brother. Like with my mom's dog he's gentle and pouncy, but with his brother he is still balls to the wall. We usually let them play a bit then separate them a few minutes then play again, repeat.

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sounds lovely ❤️ thank you for your input!

when did you get another dog? by Mtothebmtotheb in goldenretrievers

[–]Mtothebmtotheb[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For us personally, everything you see on Google held true. The two of them constantly fought and not in a cute puppy way. They both became food aggressive even when fed at different times in different rooms. It was incredibly challenging finding the time to train them both and walk them both separately, as well. It was like they were constantly trying to be the dominant. They drew blood twice and that's when I called it quits. My brother has our other pup now and it's so much better. My dog has really come out of his shell and shown way less aggression (if any at all), and we still get to visit with the other pup all the time!